i fall in love with a friend of mine.. i dont know if he loves me the same way i do.. were classmates in college and we get close to each other when i try to help him with his problem with a friend of me too that he really loves.. and the girl loves him too but cant decide about them.. the worst thing is i fall in love with him... most of the time were together.. we go to malls amusement parks etc.. together just to have fun... i dont know what to do? i feel guilty for what we were doing.. as if im fighting at my friends back.. as if were having fun enjoying things together that she didnt know.. and we both doesnt like that someone we knew will see us, as if like were hiding to everyone.. i wanna know now what to... i don tknow ifhe loves me too but sometimes it feels like that...
2006-08-27 01:49:43 · 6 answers · asked by casper_pooh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him exactly how you feel, (get it out of your system), then move on!
2006-08-27 01:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by johnavaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him. Tell him that you don't exactly know where the relationship stands as of now, and that you want to know how he feels about you because you are in love with him. See what he says and don't feel bad if he says he doesn't like you. After all, you do know that he likes this other friend of yours. If he says that he does like you, then tell your friend that and don't feel guilty about getting in the way of their relationship. Good Luck.
2006-08-27 01:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 've been there. If he didn't show you any affection by now forget it. As ssoon as he finds out that you have a crash on him. He won't be your friend anymore. SO either keep him as abody or tell him and move on.
2006-08-27 01:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that not a real guy although u love him u can't let him treat you like that...talk to him straight up & don't worry so much!!!
2006-08-27 02:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by solymar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him be straight with him
u neva know he might just be shy
2006-08-27 02:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone just be friends
2006-08-27 01:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋