I am living in fear of my lesbian lover ...is this domestic violence?
2006-08-27 01:40:08 · 18 answers · asked by baissez_moi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sounds like it babe
have you sought any help?
abuse is not just physical,
have you contacted your local victim support group?
they WILL HELP you
they did me one time
2006-08-27 01:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Domestic violence can be mental or physical. You don't say why you are in fear, so in terms of help, bit more difficult. Police will deal mainly with physical assault, but they should have a Domestic Violence team/officer who could put you in touch with people that would be of more help in your area, if the police aren't able to help you best. Ring your local main station and ask to speak to their DV officer.
2006-08-29 00:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by footie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
domestic violence would be, imho, any violence whether from a lover, parent, sibling etc. encountered in a domestic ie. not an exterior party so, yes, it would be domestic violence.
get help and good luck.
2006-08-27 01:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe, a domestic can be many things but living in fear is not on. why not come and live with me and i'll protect you...lol But try not to worry to much dont be scared and i hope shes your ex lover...hope this helps you love
2006-08-29 22:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is, go to the police. Since the law was changed recently, they DO have to deal with "domestics" now. Don't put up with it.
2006-08-27 01:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt.
Nobody should live in fear of their partner.
It can be a surprisingly easy situation to get into and a hard one to escape from.
If you can get advice locally then that would be the best solution.
2006-08-27 23:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by bobbi b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no relationship can exist under fear.
you have to be free to make a choice.
wether it is dom. voilance or not take a breather and get your head sorted out then look around and see if you still would like to stay in the relationship or find one at equality basis
2006-08-27 09:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by ok 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is domestic violence leave her before it get's really bad
2006-08-27 01:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by mandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did you do to her? I guess it could be considered demostic violence. contact a support group and explain your situation. im afraid a cant give you more advice as i am not aware of your situation. goodluck though.
2006-08-27 05:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes chick - anything that makes you feel bad about yourself , be it " your hair looks stupid" "you sound dumb" it can be something simple or something drastic like they hit you or worse - you need to get out now, you dont need to live like this with anyone !!
2006-08-27 04:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by cleo55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her find a safe place to go to and go , there are helplines in local phone books or report her but don't stay with her any abuse is not acceptable in any relationship , love don'tspill blood it cares and nurtures and makes you feel safe
2006-08-29 18:44:17 · answer #11 · answered by nobody's perfect ..01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋