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My husband is ailing from asthma and due to his ill health we do not engage in sex.This worries me a lot. As I like my husband very much I don't want to divorce him. Ladies will you please tell me what to do?

2006-08-27 00:35:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Women's Health

13 answers

My advise to you is that instead of thinking of "alternatives", you should keep yourself in good mental, physical and spiritual health! You come through as a very mature person: go for long walks, spend a lot of time with your husband, help him a lot with his work, hobbies and health management, personally, take much time with your daily bath, "talking" to your own body, "making friends" with your own body, you are sure to discover new dimensions about yourself! Read good books, interact with good friends! Wish you all the best!

2006-08-27 01:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0 0

I will try to answer in you in the best way possible. If you want to stay married, but your husband has an illness that stops you from having sex, then maybe you might want to try something in the mechanical department. You may want to talk this over with your husband, and I don't know how affectionate you are with one another, but there is the possibility of being able to find something that you can use, and he won't mind helping you use it, or think of it as a way to spark up your sex life. I hope I have not made you uncomfortable in any way, and should you decide you want to go that way, but want to keep it discreet, look such things up on eBay, and on eBay stores. I don't know of anything ebay doesn't have, and you may be able to find a store online, who could send your order to you with discretion, unless you don't mind going to an actual adult store, where such products are sold. I hope this may help you some. By doing this, it wouldn't be cheating on him, and he may find it pleasurable for him as well, to be a part of it, so that his asthma won't flare up due to physical exertion as it would be if you were having sex physically together. I hope I have been helpful, but not tasteless with my answer. I hope that maybe you may find a way for you to get satisfaction.

2006-08-27 07:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by brenda_sue_1104 3 · 0 0

You are a good lady. I think you to love your husband more deeply as you are doing. If you can do this you will not feel sex like you are feeling at present. Likewise, consult his doctor regularly & make your husnabd happy. I do believe that you will be happy with your husband within very short time.

May Allah bless you.

2006-08-27 07:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your husband should consult with a doctor, even though he has asthma, I would think that he would be interested in sex!!! Get yourself some toys. Good Luck!!!

2006-08-27 08:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0 0

I have never heard of anyone with asthma not be able to have sex no matter how bad..Perhaps you should talk to his doctor about it..There are methods but if he has asthma as bad as that I cannot see him doing those either..see your doctor

2006-08-27 07:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by trina k 2 · 0 0

Not to sound like i am being sarcastic because i am not but have you thought about buying a vibrator if you need sex? This way you are not cheating just pleasuring yourself and there is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself.

2006-08-27 07:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your husband was ill and he was living with his grief. You loved him very much and you are still trying to look for st to satisfy your sexual life?

2006-08-27 11:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by tellmetruth 3 · 0 0

medically he needs to talk to his doctor to help with his promblem, he needs to tell the doctor that it is affecting his sex life.
As for you, if you want to please yourself. I like to take baths and let the water run over my cl*t. It feels good, so maybe you could try that. GOOD LUCK

2006-08-27 07:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by angel 4 · 0 0

If you can't control your urge you are free to indulge in any sex activities to satisfy you ,it is your personnel will & you are quite normal to get involve in.

2006-08-27 07:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0 0

Hook up with someone on the internet to meet your needs.

2006-08-27 09:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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