my husband fantasize other woman while sex?

Question

how can i stop my husband from fantasize about other woman when he was mith me?at first it ok but then i really pissed off.i really hate it.how can i make it stop n makes he think about me?i've tried to tell him but he gets angry .

Answer 1

you wont be able to change his thoughts

Answer 2

There is something known as reverse action. You cannot change him by telling him. What you can do is do the same way he does to you. Pretend to fantasize like he does and start comparing him and try to show your husband that the person whom you are fantasizing is better. This will definitely bring some jelousy in your husband and trust me he'll definitely become angry but you need to keep cool. When its intolerable for your husband, then tell him that you feel the same when he fantasizes about other women.

Answer 3

The thing is, how will you know he's not fantasizing about other women, even though he promises you he will stop doing that? There's just no way you will ever know unless you can read his mind. The only thing you can ask him to do is to stop talking about other women while having sex with you. As far as his thoughts are concerned, no one has control over that.

Answer 4

You are crazy for thinking you can control your husbands thought process. What you have done is built up a wall between you and your husband. He won't tell you what he is thinking anymore. Men think about other women all the time and it is perfectly normal. He is married to you , right? You have nothing to worry about, he is not going anywhere. You are destroying your sex life and marriage if you keep going in the direction you are heading, you are headed to divorce court.

Answer 5

Its a rare man who fantisises about having sex with his wife.
What's the problem - if your still having sex then you have a good relationship. What do you think about when you're having sex - shopping - the next meal, or what. If someone is having sex so that it sets their mind moving, then there's nothing wrong with it.
Just think what it would be like if
there was no sex
he was cheating on you
he had turned gay.
Yiu can have evrything you know.

Answer 6

There are always three people in a marriage bed - you, your spouse and the fantasies. Get used to it and stop worrying about what is quite normal. Just ask him to stop telling you about it (be honest, don't you have the odd little dream too)

Answer 7

thats not a good sign.... just have a talk to him and let him know how it makes you feel and see if he'll at least try to keep it to himself when your together. There is no saying that he will stop that you'll know for sure of so speak with him and see if he can at least keep that he's doing it to yourself. Men do it and some women too.

Answer 8

gee is he calling you by someone else too, think you might wanna start calling out someone else's name when heavily into intercourse and see what kind of response you get.
as for getting him to stop fantasizing about other women, that won't happen he has probably been doing that all his sexual life

Answer 9

Be thankful he's not with another woman. Don't you know that you can't change another person. My woman has been trying to do that for ever. At least he's honest about it. What do you want him to do...lie and say he's always thinking of you?

Answer 10

I agree just give him a taste of his own medicine. Men say stupid things sometimes not thinking about womens emotions. Hit em where it hurts theoretically speaking.

Answer 11

You can't keep the man from fantasizing. Try it yourself you may like it.