I have these friends that I have had many awesome times with, but ever since summer started, they've been ignoring me (great timing!). But yeah, whenever I asked one of them if they wanted to hang out they either say later, or 'call me back some other time' or 'busy', only to find out they've been doing tons together! And the thing is, there was nothing wrong between us, no tension, drama, whatever. What's with the ditching? And I ran into them today, and for some reason it was terribly awkward, but they acted as if nothing was wrong!
2006-08-26 23:11:06 · 9 answers · asked by eminem526 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bummer, i am sorry that happen to you.
My advice would be to share how you feel with your friends. Let them know that you are hurt by them.
They might not even realize anything is wrong and if you don't share with them your feelings they may never know.
people can't read minds and it's not fair for you to expect your friends to understand everything you think and feel if you don't voice it.
True friends share the good and bad stuff, no matter what!
so good luck, be honest and i hope everything goes well.
bye
2006-08-26 23:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by FRIEND 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all part of growing up, i used to hang out with these two brothers all the time. I spent so much time at there house i had my own pillow and sheets there, but as we got older we started to like different things and started hanging out with different people. This can be a good time to look around for a new group of Friends, of all the people i knew since high school the only one i still know is my girlfriend. Moving on and things changing is what life is all about, try something new with new people it may open up new doors to you.
2006-08-27 07:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its that important to you, ask them...and make sure you read between the lines. Other wise go about your business without them. Get yourself some new friends. If they were truly your friends they would treat you better.
More importantly though, keep your main focus on your education. Before you know it you will be an adult...if you're dumb and ignorant, your life will not be productive and fun. Be smart and your best friend will be yourself.
2006-08-27 06:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to them about it and if you still feel the same and their still giving you the shoulder just forget it and find new friends. You did your part trying to get together, now its their turn. Sorry, I know I'm kind of going through the same thing, but there's always nicer people who are worth your thoughts. Good luck, i hope things work out better for you...
2006-08-27 06:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are the ones who make you feel important and help you grow... If you think that there giving you the cold shoulder then confront them and ask them if they have anything against you... it could be miscommunication or something you did that made them feel offended...
if you know in yourself, that you have done nothing against them, then you know they are not friend material...It maybe a sign that you need to mingle with other people.
2006-08-27 06:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by angel in disgust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you hurt their feelings somehow.
Try to ask them what's happening, or ask real reasons why they don't want to hang out with you anymore.
Or maybe they just want to surprise you, birthday, or something like that.
Anyway, if it's not your birthday or anything, than it's must be sumthin you say towards one of them.
And if they really doing that on purpose, you should just leave them. Friends are people who believe in you, do things together, and share problems together. Remember that
2006-08-27 06:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you did something wrong or they believe you did something wrong. Be confrontation and ask why they are giving you a cold shoulder. At least you will know. At the worst you won't have lost your friends as they seem already gone.
2006-08-27 06:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hang out with someone and show them that you are not dependent on them. Let them feel a bit jealous by showing them how happy you are without them. This should teach them a lesson
2006-08-27 06:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by ankit pruthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont let them think that you cant live without them!... you can live without them since u were young have fun on your own... do things u really wanted to do on ur own..it's their lost not yours...
2006-08-27 06:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋