2006-08-26 23:10:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I guess its up to her, but remember, This is your fiance and probably the future mother of your children. Not just a girlfriend. Im sure you really love her, but I think bringing others into the situation like that can really complicate things. Even if she is all for it, it may change not turn out the way she expected it to be. What if she starts to resent you because "you spent more time with the other girls during the threesome, or she's prettier then me so you like her more" etc. Women can get VERY jealous. And if you truly value her, I wouldnt chance ruining the relationship. also, how would you feel if she wanted to have a threesome with you and 2 other guys?
2006-08-26 23:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by niransmami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem at all if your fiance is up for it.
But... every man I know who has had his dream threesome has been disappointed. They've got really cranky about not being the centre of attention every second. The resounding comment from all ofthem has been 'you need a director there telling everyone what to do'.
If your fantasy is that the two women adore you, and only you, for the entire time you'd better explain that to them before they start - then see if they're still interested.
2006-08-26 23:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by salvationcity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about flying a 747 before you've got rid of your training wheels. The problem isn't your appetite. That's just your BS. How can you please 2 when you haven't learned to properly please 1? By all means, go ahead and tell her you need this. She deserves to hear what you're planning for her future. It might save the cost of the divorce. Honestly, anyone asking this is a lifetime away from being ready for it.
2006-08-26 23:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Hal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if your fiance thinks it's bad (most women are curious, but wouldn't end up allowing it to happen). Good luck learning to control that large sexual apetite.. I wish you and your fiance well-matched libidos...
2006-08-26 23:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats perfectly fine make sure that your fiance is happy with it she might not be after all how would you feel if your fiance wanted a 3 some with you and another man think about it?
2006-08-26 23:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep totally out of the question,if you love and respect your fiance a 3 some should never be considered.that dosnt make for a healthy relationship,spells out disaster to me,but hey thats my opinion.you seem like you have made your mind up anyway.
2006-08-30 03:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she agrees then I think you should return the favour and have another 3 some with you and another man, what do you think?
2006-08-27 06:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok but hope you feel the same way when your fiance wants you and another man to bang on her too!
2006-08-26 23:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but she may not like it doing it can ruin things with your gf and can bring out the green eye monster out of 1 of you I'm talking from doing it myself and never again
2006-08-28 04:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if it could be fun, but don't do it out in the street - you'll frighten the horses.
2006-08-27 00:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋