there's a girl in my class...we were never good friends...suddenly she became close to me..later i found out the reason that she is in love with a person i know and she needs my help..that was the reason of her friendship..I sometimes like her and sometimes not...I don't know whether i should b friends with her...Can anyone help me?
thanking u...
2006-08-26 22:43:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think being friends with this person is up to you. Obviously if you choose not to befriend her all you have to d is explain that you feel she is merely using you as a tool to get to a crush of hers. That isn't honesty and if that bothers you, you should talk to her about that. I hope my suggestions help. Take whatever you think will work for you.
Sincerely,
April
2006-08-26 22:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by April S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you help her, you will earn her friendship for a while. Later on, maybe even love. But FRIENDS say, never patter in a buddy's platter. If your bud is close, be weary, if not, go for it! But you would lose a friend.
2006-08-27 05:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make as many friends as possible and help her out just think one day you might need her help to get you with a girl you like.
2006-08-27 05:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by godzylla3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) shes sort of using you pal
b) well, if you think the friendship is worth it, then go for it. If you think shes gonna stop being friends with you when she gets/doesnt get what she wants, then show her the door.
its not really fair that shes using you
2006-08-27 05:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she is only using u to get what she wants. enjoy her company if you wish to, you dont have to like her or dislike her. it will come naturally. friendship cannot be forced, only time can tell if you two can be good friends for a long time.
2006-08-27 05:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Russ Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's up to you, she may turn out to be a good friend, but she is just using you to get to someone else, just take things slowly,
2006-08-27 05:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love and in friendship, follow your heart!
2006-08-27 05:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur sure shes only ur friend coz she wnts to use you.. thn ditch her wht a jerk geez shes acting lyk a guy =\
2006-08-27 05:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by if_i_f4ll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its alrigh to be friends with her. Having friends never hurt anybody.
2006-08-27 05:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you like her or not go help her.
2006-08-27 05:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by MenudoPie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋