omg okay say if you got pregnant but you dont want youre mom to know what do you?
my friend is 16 and she is pregnant and she doesnt want her mom to know and i told her to tell her mom but she wont listen to me and her boyfriend told his mom but his mom didnt care sooo i told him wat the hell is wrong with ur mom and he was like i dont what do i tell her beacuase she wants to run away and never come back home i am just afraid i am gonna loose a really good friend what do i do?
2006-08-26 22:17:06 · 10 answers · asked by iluv50cent94 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Take her to a doctor. They will help her break the news to here mom. She has to realize that she is running out of time. As the belly grows don't you think that will come up anyway.
2006-08-26 22:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by deanster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to convince her to tell her mom. As bad as that thought is to her it is the only logical thing to do. Running away and all that other stuff will be much harder in the long run than getting the support her mom will give her. Many young ladies have made that mistake before and many will make it after. What she has to do now is face up to it. This is not something she can handle alone. After the anger her mom will be there to help and the two of them can put forth a plan of action that will be for the benefit of all. She has paid the ultimate price for not listening to good advice prior to the pregnancy. Its a tough, hard lesson. With determination she can learn from this and still become a better person because of it.
2006-08-27 05:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she has been threatened by her mom about getting pregnant. Look it's not up to you to say any thing to the mom, but at the same time let her know that her mom will be mad, scared and hurt at first, but in the long run she will be there for her. Take her to a care clinic and have her talk to a counselor about the options there are out there to help her. Like adoption and even unwed mothers shelters. They help them through the pregnancy and birth as well as the care should they choose to keep it. Call around and help her. NO MATTER WHAT BE THERE FOR HER. SHE NEEDS YOU. First step is the boys town hotline - they have connections to these types of shelters and the numbers. Tell her to hang on a while longer at her mom's and you will help her get this taken care of.
2006-08-27 05:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how sick the baby can be if she doesnt get prenatal care! Is she prepared to care for a baby with down syndrome, cerebral palsy etc. She may think , it would not happen to her but it just may be. You need to tell her about all these people who didnt get prenatal care and ended up have still borns, or the baby never developed correctly or many other important reasons like that. Whats her mom going to do? Spank her? no i dont think so, tell her to get over herself or that you will tell her mother. Trust me, you may lose a friend but you might just have saved a little life! She's pregnant, young and with all those hormones extremley irrational! Do her and her baby a favor and tell
2006-08-27 05:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's world, the moral ethics are gone. I am sorry, I am being blunt, but this is the hard truth. Now that the situation is there, be bold enough to face the hard reality of your mistake. THe Bible clearly counsels to avoid "Temporary Enjoyment of Sin". Tell your mom who has brought you in the world and ollectively find an appropriate solution. After committing the first sin, please do not comit another one i.e. Abortion which tantamounts to Murder in God's Eyes. The life in your belly deserves to see the light of the day and should not be snuffed out because of your one mistake after another.
2006-08-27 05:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rajesh G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really care 4 ur friend, then u should tell her mom u might b saving her from a big mistake if she decides to leave..... Tell da Mom!!!!! a.as.a.p.
2006-08-27 05:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As she is a good friend for you and you are about her tell her mom but in a good way
2006-08-27 05:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE IS OLD ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION, THEN SHE IS OLD ENOUGH TO TELL HER MOM. IT'S NOT AS BAD AS SHE THINKS. SHE IS NOT THE FIRST TEENAGE PREGNANT GIRL. AND BELIEVE ME THERE IS LIFE AFTER HAVING A BABY. SHE WASN'T SCARED TO LET SOME GUY'S THING THING TO GO INSIDE OF HER SO SHE SHOULDN'T BE SCARED TO TELL HER MOM. GROW UP!
2006-08-27 05:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by SKYE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell own mum,
2006-08-27 05:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by PhotoARTist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's legal to have abortion in where you are, go for it
2006-08-27 05:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋