2006-08-26 22:15:08 · 15 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You get him to talk abt his true feelings face to face adn then deceide if you can handle it , if you cannot pls move on.
2006-08-26 22:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should .. definitely !
You or your spouse may have feelings for anyone .. that doesnot hamper your married life IF you two love each other enough , have enough respect , feelings and emotions a married couple should have.
But if you are jealous and do not have that much confidence on your love as well as marriage, then you should break it off.
Although, before breaking, think what it would be, if you could not know about his/her feelings for someone else ? If you didnot know it ever ? You would be still with him / her .. so ? Better you know it now and you could be free to talk about him / her.
Try to be a bit different than others. Let him / her do whatever he/she wish , and let him / her know that you are aware about it and discuss about it freely with him / her and you would get a beyond imaginary result. Your spouse would be surprised to see that you love him/her so much that you are giving that much freedom to him/her , he/she would be more and more attracted to you and love you more and more.
Always remember that this kind of "feelings" and mostly temporary and marriages are so permanent as it is made in heaven. And at any point of time you can also be "weak" on someone. What would be if he/she think about breaking up the marriage at that time ?? So, before breaking, think again and again.
Be happy ever after.
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2006-08-27 05:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Aronyo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person you refer to as your spouse has feelings for someone else,by definition you dont have a Marriage!!!
What you have is three people standing at a fork in the road.You need to take one path and let the so called spouse and friend take the other path!!!
2006-08-27 06:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Freethrashing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk openely about it to your spouse .. try to contain his feelings .. and help him throuhg .. the man nature urges him to do that .. unless he is very much supported and contained by his lover or wife ..
But don't let your self esteem and self centered feelings drive you away from him .. just don't take it with jealousy alone ..
If he is fair and honest person and loves you truely he will understand and will listen to your needs ..
Let life goes on and days will prrove to him that you are the genuine love in his life ..
Let him feel the warmth of your hugs and express your needs in his arms .. this will fill up many gaps that may have created such situation.
2006-08-27 08:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by ohwaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you are getting out of it. My spouse has decided to be gay. So we are still married (easier for me to keep my hands on the money) and since I am handicapped he and his boyfriend come in 4 days a week to take care 0f me which saves me money. While he is here he does home repairs and care which also saves me money sooooooo right now I'm doing much better to stay married.
2006-08-27 05:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by casey54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAhaahhaaha are you kidding me?Should you stay?You need to wake up and smell the coffee,or roses whatever it requires for you to get a head on your shoulders and tell that looser husband of yours to get out!!NOt 5 minutes from now do it like this minute and dont waste a sec!!HOw dare you even tolerate such behavior in your life! have some respect for yourself .I hope you do make him leave and dont take his sorry butt back i hope ya the best and good luck!
2006-08-27 05:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is bad...u need to really think things through.is he worth the trouble and heartache? can u live without him? if u cant, and he is worth it, then u need to make him fall for you - again. but if u feel that nothing u do will ever change him and he will forever favour the other person over you, then its time to say goodbye...
2006-08-27 05:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,No baby you deserve to be happy,please believe me it does not seem like you can go on without this person,but you can and will.None of us is promised tomorrow so pray and move on.
2006-08-27 05:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by sweetc30066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cn try 2 stay bt i think it's bttr nt 2 stay..u deserve 2 hv sum1 who loves u very much. if he/she doesn't love any longer, y should u wait more?
2006-08-27 06:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seperate, see what happens. It is like they say if you love something set it free if it comes back to you it was meant to be.
2006-08-27 05:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Spookwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋