sincere answers plz....bcoz i think i am in love but before moving ahead i want to know what love exactly is. Is i'm really in love or it is just infatuation.
2006-08-26 22:08:30 · 19 answers · asked by knu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I like to say you the LOVE:
When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around
to find them.
At that moment, you are in love.
Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,
your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.
Then, you are in love.
Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back,
to let you know of their safe arrival,
your phone is quiet.
You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love.
If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from
that special someone than other many long e-mails,
you are in love.
When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the
emails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message
from that special someone, you are in love.
When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would
not hesitate to think of that special someone.
Then, you are in love.
You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend",but
you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that
moment, you are in love.
While you are reading this mail, if someone
appears in your mind,
then u are in love with that person...)
2006-08-27 06:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by vinayak_2438 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See, every individual loves himself/herself first. This is the law of nature. Now, the type of person who satisfies ur ego, ur emotions ur personal queries etc. is the one whom u want. Sometimes it may happen that a person may show some of ur favourite qualities of satisfaction, sometimes it is really there.
Now how to differentiate ?
It is not impossible to test.
U know it is not gold when the thing stops showing the qualities of gold.
So when ur personality is getting a question mark of dissatisfaction & doubt, u'll get that it is infatuation, i.e, illusory attraction.
A clue : u r asking questions so, there is a fair chance of this to be an infatuation case.
But if u r only afraid of getting involved, but the person gives u complete satisfaction when u r with him, then it is love.
Anyway, there is no harm in loving a person, u r not cheating him, u r giving, so what is there to worry about ?
2006-08-26 23:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tiya B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is inexplicable and overly defined.. it is a feeling, a choice, a state of mind.. You will know when you are in love, you lose sight of all analytical thought processes, and you succumb to the beauty of the unknown and spiritual enlightenment... you wont need a definition, as the "feeling" will overwhelm you and you will have all the answers you require..
ENJOY and allow yourself the pleasure of eternity...
2006-08-26 23:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by *SuperSexy* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love means to give Joy and take sorrow. If both the partners think this, then life would be great.
2006-08-26 22:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no definition of love. it grows as you share your life together. if you needed to ask this question, you probably not in love.its just infatuation which could turn to love but you will have to work at it
2006-08-26 22:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is something that comes at any age any time it is a part of life and i think everyone should love and the person who posted this question should love ur lover
2006-08-26 22:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is when you have a rili nice but hard to get rid of feeling when you think or see this person you are in love with...
2006-08-26 22:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling in which a person gets closer 2 an other...
2006-08-26 22:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by maham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I think love would be. Someone you could trust completely. Someone you would trust with your life.
But that's just me. I'm a very untrusting... suspicious individual. XD
2006-08-26 22:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by MaryThomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling not to be defined . It is felt when you see in someones eyes and think that woulld he know what is going on in your heart .
2006-08-26 22:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by kellen_de 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋