I was watching the show cheaters and this guy cheated on his gf with her best friend of 20 years. It's very interesting to watch but I'm sure if it really did happen to anyone, that would really suck. List your own experience, if you cheated on someone or had been cheated on, what happen and why did you do it?
2006-08-26 21:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by choyryu 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have been on both the sides. Cheated someone, and been cheated on. Cheated someone, cos the relationship really didnt get anywhere, I had no choice but got drawn into something closer, warmer, more understanding....anyway, its not really worth remembering, cos' it was wrong anyway. There is no peace at cheating someone. It always gets back to you in some negative way or the other. Like hiding, covering, getting restless or scared over someone knowing....But it was an experience...I understood how it felt when I got cheated, this time it was bad. ''really suck'' is not the word, and I really wouldnt be able to explain how much it pains, specially when you know the person you love the most is cheating on you with your own sister. It killed me nearly, and i was an emotional mess...Looking back, I am glad what I did. Not only did i getmy sister out of trusting someione lik ethat person (I had to do a lot of lying and convincing to her, to get her out of it), but I had get rid of him out of our lives..., that was a really trying time, and it really upset the balance in my life...... Anyway, it feels long ago, probably i pushed it so back in my mind that it feels it happened ages ago...and then I am glad it did. It showed me how it felt on the other side.
2006-08-26 21:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, I cant say that he's or isnt cheating on you. yet the two way the relationship is tainted. If he's cheating on you, it needless to say wont artwork out. And if he isnt, your nevertheless continuously going to suspect that he's. Its unlucky, yet i think of that the sand on your relationship time-glass is rather lots long gone. No sense in preserving onto that final grain. i think of you need to positioned an end to this. playstation . I even have been interior the comparable top project. she would call him overdue at evening, at artwork, each and all the time. She even got here and stayed in my homestead! and then insulted ME! and that i broke up with him suited then and there. Im now thankfully with my terrific chum of 10 years, and its looking like we would desire to get engaged quickly :). My element being, dont carry on if its no longer working for you, there would desire to be that distinctive somebody waiting for you accessible!
2016-12-17 17:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by dlabaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I would never make a commitment with someone and dishonor our relationship in this way. I did have one person cheat on me and I simply turned and walked away. He did everything to try to reconcile, but I cannot respect or trust anyone who does this to me or anyone else.
2006-08-26 21:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on any girl I was with not many can say that anymore
2006-08-26 21:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly why (if you are going to cheat anyway) you should do it w/ a stranger.
2006-08-26 21:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent done it and it hasnt happened to me. i really cant believe somebody would do that
2006-08-26 21:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋