i think about having sex withboys sometimes in school and i dont know y. am i sick i mean i think about it but dont do it.
2006-08-26 20:42:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 12 and in the 7th grade btw
2006-08-26 20:46:32 · update #1
It is VERY NORMAL to be thinking about sex and even fantasizing about it at your age. Especially when it is everywhere you look...TV, music, movies, etc. Just remember that thinking about it and doing it are two completely different things. Before you even consider having sex...even oral, you should talk to a RESPONSIBLE adult. Your preacher, your parents, even a teacher at school. There are many risks like diseases and pregnancy...not to mention damage to your reputation. Introducing sex into a relationship also puts a lot of stress into your life. You are very young, but if you are thinking about sex..now is the time to talk to an adult.
2006-08-26 21:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by DawnMarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen darling I'm 21 now, but when i was 12 i was having the same feelings it perfectly normal for a girl your age to have those feelings its just the beginning of many many feelings and emotions to come. there will be alot of feelings you wont know where they came from or why your feeling this way its part of becoming a woman. Your perfectly fine and i would go so far as to say if you didn't feel this way something would be wrong. Just make sure before you act on these feelings your ready your still young so you have plenty of time to think about it before actually doing it. Remember your worth waiting for.
2006-08-26 20:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by bebesmom_06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey. im 15 and i totally know what you mean.some girls start thinking about having sex with boys really early around puberty which im sure your going through. you aren't sick and if you dont do it yet it could be for the better. i think about having sex with boys other then my boyfriend which i thought was wierd. but that's just how i am
i made a huge mistake by having sex with my boyfriend. a month later i freaked out cause i missed a period. turns out that i wasn't pregnant. but just some advice, make sure your ready to have sex. and be portected!!
2006-08-26 23:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to start thinking about stuff like that. You are going through puberty and you have all kinds of hormones. If you havent talked to a parent or a trusted adult about sex and masturbation it is time to do so. Oh and please dont have sex so young. First of all it hurts really bad and there are so many things that can happen like getting pregnant or STDs. It is best to wait until you are atleast 18 to have sex.
2006-08-26 20:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Christinamk227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh of direction God will forgive you! Dont problem. Its pronounced that God can study each and everything which you're thinking, yet remember those suggestions are YOUR suggestions no longer His, yet He is likewise hardship-free with of that the devil can positioned unfavorable suggestions (temptations) on your suggestions. Its existence, and as a Christian thats what you would be examined by utilising, to instruct your perception and not fall for those suggestions. Dont problem you're ok. Everytime something like that occurs pray to Him. and you heavily isn't despatched to hell for having those suggestions, their temptations. in simple terms pray. God Loves You and dont think of at any 2d which you would be doomed because of the fact of those suggestions or that He wont have self belief you. =]
2016-09-30 22:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not sure what the problem is here. You mean, you're sitting in class and you think about getting laid? That's perfectly normal. You're just horny, that's all. It happens all the time. You can't avoid thinking about sex. Trust me many of your classmates are thinking about the same things. I can only assume you have some sort of puritanical upbringing that makes you think sexual desire is bad. Well, it isn't.
2006-08-26 20:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by athedge 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats normal but since you think about it so much youll probably do it sooner or later!
2006-08-27 03:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking is OK. Just dont do it until you are married.
2006-08-27 03:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's better to think about it then to actually do it. and no it is not sick you probably think about it because you are just starting to notice boys.
2006-08-27 02:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by puppygirl1213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that's pretty normal just be careful. sometimes people think about it so much they go and do it and that can change ue life forever.
2006-08-26 20:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋