...sorry, apologize, miserable and guilty are not enough although you mean all of that?
When it is your fault, but there is no way to mend things and you feel awful when look yourself in the mirror.
What to do when you misjudged someone, and there is no way to fix things? What to do when you yourself already know that when something is broken than it is broken and glued thing isn't new anymore? Are there things that can not be broken?
2006-08-26 20:35:31 · 9 answers · asked by no one 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you should do, is leave a sorry letter at their home, along with a gift which the wwould be really interested in but wouldn't have, say this person likes charmed, buy a triquatra necklace, or somthing. Ask them in your card to meet at you at a certain time and place the next day, if its after that then they would have forgotten their happiness by then and be less likely to turn up. If they do turn up the next day, you know they are willing to hear you out and to give the friendship/ relationship another go. So your half way there.
After you meet, send another sorry card the next day, put in your telephone number at the bottom of the card. And write somthing like "I'm so sorry for what I've done, I was wrong, I know that. I also know I'll never upset you like this again, if your willing to give this another go, start afresh, then call me"
If they call then your done, but still apologise the next time you see them. But not anymore after that, you don't want them to be constently reminded of the break. Good luck to you mate.
2006-08-26 21:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jensen Ackles Girl (I Wish!) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I look for ways to make up for what I have done wrong. If fixing what I broke isn't making me feel better, I look for different ways. Look and see if the person you hurt needs anything - whether it be a hug, a car wash, flowers, etc.....they will appreciate your gesture, and you'll feel better in the end.
2006-08-27 03:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not worry. there is nothing in this world that cannot b fixed or repaired. Of course there is lot of things that will not b broken. but it is better to find them urself.
2006-08-27 04:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by N O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to them from the heart.. if that is hard write a letter. But just know that they have the right to decide to forgive or not.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-27 03:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but I'm in the same situation, you could learn to get over it and move on with your life, as you expressed; what's done is done
2006-08-27 03:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When saying all of that, you must remember that actions speak louder than words...
2006-08-27 03:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♪♫♪ La Dee Da ♪♫♪♫♪♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove it by your actions.
2006-08-27 03:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much nothing you can do once you fcuk up that's it
you made your bed ..you sleep in it. it happens
2006-08-27 03:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just understand them
2006-08-27 03:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by yogesh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋