his gf told me that they wer trying to have sex and he could not get it up.
dose that mean he could be gay?
i mean he always checks chicks out n stuff would he know if he was gay?
2006-08-26 20:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by jas_slo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If he has trouble getting an erection, that does NOT mean he is gay. Stress, nutrition, fatigue, and any number of medical problems could be the cause. Perhaps he feels pressured to have sex with her, or maybe he is worried that he may not be able to please her. The only way to really know would be to ask him. More than likely he ISNT gay..but if he was would it really make that big of a difference to you? If he is and he wants talk about it with you...he will. The best advice... if he is your best friend who cares what his sexual orientation is?!!
2006-08-26 20:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by DawnMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and I think his girlfriend is not very nice for telling you that. Most guys that don't get it up is because of stress or being overtired or maybe he just didn't like this chick. Are you going to ask this question of yourself the next time you can't get it up??
2006-08-27 03:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have felt too pressured, or been intoxicated in some way that altered his ability to perform. You probably shouldn't bug him about being gay - because he might still be trying to figure that out for himself....so just leave him be, and if he says he likes girls, accept it.
2006-08-27 03:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe mentally he can't maybe he's intimidated by her or she's saying wrong things to turn him off no he's not gay.you might try kissing him to find out.
2006-08-27 03:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire another gay and ask him to find
2006-08-27 03:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be so many other reasons also ?
2006-08-27 03:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋