how do you know if youre wife is cheating on you?

Answer 1

If you do not catch her in bed with someone else, you will never know. The real question might be why do you feel like you need to know if she is cheating on you.

If you are having trouble in your relationship, you better start talking openly and honestly with her. If you cannot do this, then it is already too late even if she is not cheating on you now.

Answer 2

The fastest and easiest way (although not the cheapest way) to find out is hire a private investigator. Other than that, you can ask yourself these questions: Has she recently bought any new clothes or lingerie? Has she all of a sudden started paying more attention to her personal appearance - gotten a new hairstyle, gone on a diet to lose weight/recently joined a gym? Have you looked through her purse for any evidence that she is cheating? How about her cell phone - check to see what numbers she is calling and what numbers she has received calls from. Are there blocks of time where she cannot account for her whereabouts? Has she recently shown a lack of interest in sex? If you can answer "yes" to any of these questions, it may mean, but does not necessarily confirm, that she is cheating on you. The best way to find out for sure is to hire a private investigator. Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

Buying different type of clothes than usual? Going out with "the girls" but doesn't tell you where. Finding fault with everything you do? Spending more time away from house? Ignoring your emotional and physical needs. Check telephone bills for numbers you don't recognize. Long and expensive calls that weren't on before. Read her journals/diaries if you can find them.
Lots more ways, but go with your gut instincts. If you suspect that she's cheating, then there's a good chance you're right. Good Luck and for your sake I hope she's not.

Answer 4

Don't ask her. Chances are if she's dishonest enough to cheat on you, she's not going to be honest enough to fess up to you if you ask. Watch for sudden changes such as wearing perfume or makeup that she never did before. Does she all of a sudden start doing things with her new friends that she never did before(or maybe did before) for longer periods of time? Does she give you excuses for things that don't add up? My ex used to say he was going fishing with our friends overnight or longer sometimes he even said he was going to AA meetings. I never questioned the fishing trips since he did this with our friends before, & I trusted him. It was the out of town AA meetings & him suddenly wearing cologne & nicer clothes to his job in a bakery that didn't seem right. I didn't want to be the b@*@*y wife so I didn't ask questions~turned out my suspicions were right. Maybe confront her with, "I know you're having an affair because... ", and watch her reaction, listen to what she says think it through & go from there

Answer 5

Wow this is serious stuff. Women tend to fall in love with the man they are cheating with. If you want to know who he is, just watch how she acts. Her body english won't lie.

Answer 6

For a start , she might act strange or uneasy and giving excuses to your advances. If she's a pro in pretending youve got to put up a couple of test strategies. You will have to figure it out yourself.

Answer 7

some of us are real sly and you may never know unless she falls for him and wants to be with him then she will start pulling away from you sexually then emotionally

Answer 8

If she calls u by a different name !!!

Answer 9

does she kiss differently, if so she is cheating. or better yet ask her