ok im only shy against ppl i dont really know all that well or talk to or maybe that certian guy or that popular person...well when it comes to ppl that i talk to a lot and get to know really well than i can be myself and be fun and crazy around them but other ppl i cant...and to those ppl i look like a stuck up ***** since i dont talk to them and kinda just sit there and do my own thing...so school starts on monday and i want to be able to just go up and talk to anyone and be myself and now worry about what anyone else thinks...and especially not be shy around my ex Bf that may get back together with me...i just dont want to screw anything up with that and i want to just have fun and be open and talk with him and his friends! and everyone else at my school...
2006-08-26 19:34:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be the same how you would be infront of everyone else.Do something to make yourself stand out.Dress different and people will admire that and will want to talk to you.Hey it works at my school and for me.Im the most popular girl at school.We are just like every one else One time in the sixth grade My bestfriends were all sitting in class and i was acting like i was mad at them so i went to go it some were else by this girl,and she was a nerd,my bestfriends were laughing at me but i talked to the girl and now I am in high school and we are bestfriends now and she is one of the popular grls now.So you never know what can happen.
2006-08-26 19:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by quietfighter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lifes a stage!.. just be confident... crack a joke... or luagh at someone elses... i find luaghing a fantastic way to get rid of shyness and nerves... dont put too much pressure into "not" acting shy.. that'll just make matters worse.. always go with the flow...maybe you could just visualize how you want to be.. somewhat like a little rehearsal in your head.. and improvise it when you're actually out there... good luck! =) keep smiling!
2006-08-27 02:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lamb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be exactly the same as you described, you feel like you dont want to make a fool of yourself. But then i realised what the heck, not everyone is going to like so just be yourself and nobody can ault if you for that. Just think to yourself i dont care what theyre going to think of me. Your you and you souldnt have to chne to impress somebody.
2006-08-27 18:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by g_m90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know.....u r just like my frend bt now shes improved....try to interct with other ppl ....make new frendz....freak out with frendzz dont b shy....thrs no point in being shy!!!!!!!!!!!
So try to avoid ur shyness.....
2006-08-27 03:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Neha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think till when you will be shy. This world will not like you if you are shy. So grow up and act.
2006-08-27 02:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy is a biproduct of uncertainty,or its a shut off switch for your self intelect if your not acting your age.
2006-08-27 02:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by game boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋