am i wrong for having no friends?

Question

this girl keeps calling me emo ***** and the reason why i have no friends is because i hold people back and shes calling me loner i dont care..but am i wrong...im not emo goth are punk just normal

i dont really want friends

i like to be alone im quiet so no one ever comes to talk to me..silence

Answer 1

nothing wrong with that

Answer 2

I never had any good friends, mainly becuase im quiet and reserved.. I perfer it this way though, i dont bother poeple, they dont bother me.

Throuhout my life i have had maybe 2 really close friends.. other then that when i turned 14 i ot into a really seriuos relationship but then broke it off and about i month later, a few weeks ago i ot with this new guy and now that i have him and school i honestly have no time for friends anyways... im 16 by the way.

Answer 3

First of all, I am sure you have friends. Ignore this girl. She's just being a jerk. I don't know how old you are, but remember to embrace your individuality, there are so many people that go through similar situations like you. Also, it's fine to be a loner. You can be a loner and still have friends. Lastly, ignore stereotypes. Remember she probably has her own issues.

Answer 4

The reason why she is picking on you is because she sees you as an easy target if she thinks you have no friends she thinks she can say whatever she likes because you and nobody else will retaliate. its not you at all she obviously has insecurities and she is probably jealous of you because you don't need to "fit in" to a crowd to feel accepted. as long as you are happy then it don't matter what anyone says. just be yourself. you will always find people like that in life unfortunately and there is not much you can do about it.

Answer 5

Emo...Goth...Punk...blah blah blah! You're fine...it sounds like you're still in school, and teenagers are big stupid jerks!!! Just buckle down and ignore her. She's just teasing you because of her own insecurities. It's absolutely okay to be happy by yourself, in fact it's one of the most important things to learn, most adults aren't there yet so...good job! Don't be affected by all of their stupid "label throwing", you're gonna be just fine.
Take it from me... the early 90's "goth" girl

Answer 6

Well is up to you whether you want friends or not. But if you don't have friends, you will not have anyone to ask for opinion or etc. and if you have friends, you could be more friendly. I also do have some friends calling nicknames which i don't like but i just ignore them.

Answer 7

I think the reason you don't like to have friends is because you haven't found the right ones yet. I myself can't imagine going through life without friends? Good friends are hard to find.

Answer 8

your not wrong for having no friends, but I think you should find friends so that... that gurl wont bully you anymore or call you a loner. If she still bugs you, you should ask her whats her problem and make sure she can't say a word. haha.

Answer 9

u know sth...if 1 situation cums that if u like a guy n this prob ur parents r against u...then wot whom wud u tell??? u can share this only with ur close frends...i think without frends it feels lonely.... u chat u laugh u freak out u play u fite every n each moment u do it with ur frends....so i think u must make frendz but if they r gud to u....there r so many people around u ur neighbors...if they r kids like u ...then u can b there frendz....so i must plz request u to not feel lonely...not to b alone ever make frendz n enjoy every moment of life!!

Answer 10

I think we all need someone we can talk to and share whats going on in our lives with. Maybe you do that with a family member or something. I just like having someone I can talk to.

Answer 11

U r not wrong for having no friends,
if u have decided whats best for you in the present circumstances, I guess its not wrong for you, not to have friends.
Stop listening to anyone, in the end, you will fend for urself, so dont bother.