2006-08-26 19:01:38 · 23 answers · asked by johan_rd9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes hun, you dont get to choose who you fall in love with, it just happens and it is not always that right person that you will spend your life with, there is always trial and error and sometimes it just comes to you and it is amazing. Dont give up on what you want, it may be hard but it is well worth waiting/fighting for. To answer your question though, it may be easy for some, you just know, and hard for others, you cant figure out your feelings or theirs, everyone is different. Good luck sweetie!! Hope you find out what you are looking for....
2006-08-26 19:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's an easy decision then it's NOT going to be good or it won't last for very long. But if it's a hard decision then it may be good and may last a very long time. You always appreciate things in life WAY MORE when you realize you've worked so damn hard for something you wanted so bad....or wasn't sure if you wanted it because after so much hard work and effort and HONESTY in a relationship, you've learned that you stayed strong and are still together and your happy with all that you've gone through. Making a decision about a partner for the rest of your life IS a HUGE commitment! ANY serious relationship is hard work. People change over the years naturally and while being committed to each other but that is NO excuse for wanting out of a relationship years down the road if you have thought that it all wasn't worth it. To some people, it feels tiring and boring after so many years and THAT is STILL no excuse to want out. There's ways to liven it up, spark up the romance!
You make a commitment in the eye's of GOD, STICK to it! Keep your chin up! All this is what you should remember...in my opinion but you do what you feel is right!
Oh, "dalecollins64"....(above me) said it took 4 beverly's to find the right one....for me, it took 3 Roberts...I finaly found the right one. For some weird reason I felt I was supposed to be with a Robert....3 Robert's later, I FOUND the RIGHT Robert!
2006-08-26 19:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ithink it is both, the easiest because if you are really in love you know you want to spend the rest of your life with the other "for better or worst".... And because of this es also the hardest because very often people is so selfish they thik that if things does not go well ther is always the posibility of divorce and both expects that the other gives up.
2006-08-26 19:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by AMAYI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on you.
If you are willing to submit at times, make compromises to work a relationship, pay attention to ur partners needs and so much more that is required to get a relationship sailing, then I guess it can be the easiest decision. However if you still have doubts and can be very choosy, clumsy and stubborn, it could be the hardest decision.
So, as I said, it all works along side your mind frame.
2006-08-26 19:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hardest. you always second guess yourself. How do you know if you've made the right choice? what if someone else is out there---someone better. it's the dog with the bone syndrome. A dog has a perfectly good bone, walks across a lake and sees his reflection. he opens his mouth to grab the bone in his reflection and the one he's holding in his mouth plops into the deep waters. Humans do the same thing; we're never content. Marriage and settling down with one person for the REST of your life is a diffcult and extremely hard decision!
2006-08-26 19:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by nat04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither the easiest nor the hardest. There are many more decisions in life that are both easier and harder.
But for me, that decision is impossible!
2006-08-26 19:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking back on 45 years, I'd say the hardest decision I've ever made.
2006-08-26 19:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Rvn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're young an haven't yet married, it's an easy decision.
After a few years, it can become hard to stick with it. So do give it serious thought first, then jump in with both feet happy as a clam!
2006-08-26 20:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy decision....Sometimes living with it gets hard, but in a quick minute you go from thinking of sleeping on the couch to just wanting to kiss your husband and be so close to him....
Then the next day he may do something you get mad about....and I do stuff that irritates him...but it's okay for some wierd reason....
2006-08-26 19:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by cypress9silver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it was easy. Making it happen as in making the relationship work is the hard part. Make sure the person you marry is your best friend, make sure you can talk with them, and the sex is at an acceptable quality. Make sure they really turn you on, and most importantly make sure you love them
2006-08-26 19:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by eddie9551 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋