my aunt is feelimg lonely and i feel bad for her. she's been going through so much. Like breaking up with her boyfriend, and whenever i ask her whats wrong she says PMS but i know that's not true because when i told my mom she started getting really upset because she knows about all the rough patches she's going through, like with her family and all. She cries almost every night. What can i do to help her make her happy again. (It's not depression.) well, i asked her if she was depressed, but she said no, she is just going through a hard time. i think she is just lonely and sad. Help!
2006-08-26 18:33:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
spend some time with her. make her think of other things besides the sad things. let her know that her family and you are both there for her. take her out for walks or fresh air to get her mind on other things.
2006-08-26 18:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it's obvious that you are a very caring person. All you can do is tell your aunt that you love her and give her hugs. Tell her that it IS depression. Ask her to please go to her family doctor and get an anti-depressant to help her over the rough patch. It's a chemical imbalance, not weakness on her part. Medication won't fix relationships, but it can help us deal with our problems and feel better and move on! Last of all Sweetheart, know that we can't make things right for others, we can only try to support them, so don't feel like it's your responsibility to fix things...just say your piece and love her.
2006-08-27 01:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to involve yourself more into her life. Be a friend to her cause that's what she needs. Try not to discuss her problems too much. People don't always like hearing or talking about their problems. Just give her time and be patient yourself. Time seem's to always cure such issues. Make her smile... introduce the good in life. Project good demeanor. Take Care and good luck... my regards to your aunt.
2006-08-27 01:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked her and she blew you off it means its none of your business and you shouldnt stick your nose where it doesnt belong thats what my cousin told me but if you want to help its usually the little things that make them smile the most sometimes this has worked for me .... ice cream or alcohol depending on your age and pointless conversation will sometimes lead to them talking about what is really wrong good luck to you both..
2006-08-27 01:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by twistedlifesmysteries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After she gets rid of the poor me syndrome she will be fine she just needs time. Try to get her to do stuff with you. keep her occupied. She'll be fine. I love the fact that you love your family . Good looking out.
2006-08-27 01:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by SKYE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with her but dont go getting involved try to set her up with someone, that will backfire if something goes wrong.
2006-08-27 01:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jack J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom is going through the same thing i just do everything she ask even if she doesn't ask i can tell what she needs just do whatever you think is right....laterz Megan
2006-08-27 01:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
encourage a mini make over, a night out, a day at a spa. Something that says "pamper me, I'm worth it"
2006-08-27 02:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by supermom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about yahoo answers
she needs a good laugh
hugs and laughter are good for the soul
2006-08-27 01:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i would take her out to a movie and dinner.. girl's night out. it sucks to break up with someone. she needs support from people that love her like you.
2006-08-27 01:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋