My husband and I have been together for a little over 5 years. We used to have an awesome sex life...but lately it has dwindled. It seems that I am usually the one initiating..and often he turns me down. He is in the military, and I know that he is tired...but quite frankly I miss the sex. He says he just doesn't "need" as much as he used to. I need help...I need him to NEED more, I know I sure do.
2006-08-26 18:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by DawnMarie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him about how you feel. Since his job is stressful and tiring you have to understand that just might not be physically up to it as much as you are. Try some new things to spice things up or maybe take a weekend away somewhere close where you can be alone and have some down time.
2006-08-26 18:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be so hasty and say that he's getting it else where ... but you may need to leave that as an option .... Just first, try to put on something real sexy and just walk around casually in it .. if he doesn't jump on you the first day do it for 3 days in a raw ... if he still doesn't, you need to know where he's getting it from!!!!
2006-08-26 18:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... maybe you could do some new things, like, get your nails done & put a new, sexy color on your toes? also, wear a sexy body scent or change your hair (not too drastic) It could be good to start going out w/ the girls once a week, or take up a fun class like aerobics or learn salsa. men will perk up & notice things like that,but, don't say "like my new hair?" just let him notice... it might spark a sexy new interest...
2006-08-26 18:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man is not tired! He's just getting it from someone else.
2006-08-26 18:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by ME! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes definetly hiding something from you. he might be getting it from somewhere, no guy turns down sex all the time.
2006-08-26 19:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend,better yet get a girlfriend..... if he doesnt want it..his loss....ive been married for ten years and we still do it, everyday sometimes twice..my wife works hard,and so do i ,,and we have kids,,and we make time every day. so dont let his lazyness ruin your sex life...or talk to him i dunno....good luck...maybe a toy...
2006-08-26 19:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite your best looking girlfriend over for a hot threesome!! if that doesn't work for him call me and i'll give u directions to my house cause it would shure do "it" for me!!
2006-08-26 18:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is turning down sex there's something wrong and you need to find out WTF is going on
2006-08-26 18:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he have problems getting erect?
2006-08-26 18:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋