i had a friend for about 6 or 7 months.....it waz a short time but we got rely close....he is a guy and im a girl...he waz'nt my bestfriend but i cud tell him more than i cud tell her....he told me who he likd(sum1 i didnt know)and i told sum1 else...and we got into a big fight....its been about 4 months since a talkd to him...i tried clearing things up......but it got worse.....wat can i do...i knew i didnt like him but the more im not around him the more i think bout him and care bout him....but when were friend...i just c him as a friend.....advice? i rely miss him
2006-08-26
18:26:07
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its the 1st time i went behind his back......i told him im rely sry.....he told me he luvd me as a friend and cared bout me like a friend....he said he'd be there 4 me if my boyfriend dumpd me...and he waz
2006-08-26
18:37:36 ·
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i dont want to just 4get bout him either.....my boyfriend got jelouse of him so he dumped me cuz i spend to much time wit dominic(my old friend i want back)....it old him that so he thought i waz blaming him but i waz'nt
2006-08-26
18:41:00 ·
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who r u talking about if its dp what r u talking about??????
2006-08-27 03:23:13
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answered by hot chick 1
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I have a similar situation with my guy friend. I miss him sooooo much. I have a significant other that put an end to it. I had to make a choice. I hate it so bad. Maybe it is best, but I miss him and want to speak to him so much. I pray that I can in the future, if it is right.
For you, just call him and go and see him in person. Tell him how you feel. Listen to what he has to say. Don't be contradictory or tell him just what he wants to hear. Be yourself and say it like it is. If he disses you or tries to be controlling or rude, tell him how you feel and that when he decides to start being a real friend and stop playing head games to give you a call. Hopefully, it will not come to that, but just in case, be prepared and stand up for yourself in a dignifying way. Don't let him push you around. Friendship takes effort from both people.
2006-08-26 18:34:05
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answered by just julie 6
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i think you should be a littel bit closer to him then if he doesnt work start to love him more than your parentsi f that also doent work you shold share his sorrows only if that also doesnt work take him to a dinner at night and proposeif that also doesnt work use my secret weapon invite him to your house when your alone and take him to your room telling him that you will show him your new stuff and then close the door and have a sex with him all night record yoursanhis sex in a handy cam and then see first you must be friends i f he doesnt want to be friends you cry and apolagize
2006-08-26 18:37:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Learn to live without him and promise yourself you will never betray anyone's trust again.
Trust is the basis for all relationships, whether it's parent/child, man/woman, friend/friend. Without trust, there is nothing.
Learning this lesson came at a high price for you. Remember it forever.
2006-08-26 18:37:07
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answered by dey 2
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dont misunderstand my statement,that you have done some good things in life that the guy is out of your life now.this guy attitude shows he means major harm to you soon when you are alone.go to church thank lord that you are safe.take him off your mind and concentrate in your life.you will soon get a guy worthy of you,i promise
2006-08-26 18:40:31
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answered by toliagoldstar 2
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You were his friend but you need to never tell anyone anything someone tells you..you need to keep it to yourself..so he doesn't trust you anymore...so just drop it...friends come and go...
2006-08-26 18:30:49
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answered by qdrama1956 5
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Are you 13? it truly is oooookkkk, there will be different adult adult males. this might properly be a great case of P-U-B-E-R-T-Y taking you thru typhoon. it is so wide-spread to sense the style you do. do no longer concern! :) there will be different adult adult males. there will be adult adult males certainly, yet genuine now take exhilaration on your youthful years. don't get too severe. i'm going to under no circumstances ignore the 1st time in seventh grade I have been given my heart broken. I cried and cried and cried and cried and cried and cried. Oh i grew to become into so broken. inspite of the undeniable fact that it truly is basically component of growing to be up. I under no circumstances even made acquaintances with the guy yet we cherished one yet another and that i did no longer coach it and he desperate to be with somebody else. and that i observed them at a dance and that i basically cried so no longer uncomplicated after it. yet i'm 22 now. and that i've got had my heart broken truly undesirable two times with relationships (over 2 years long). And now i'm grown up (so a procedures lol) and characteristic an exceptionally astonishing individual in my existence that treats me ok. you will possibly desire to easily take exhilaration on your teenage years. you will meet boys, and prefer them and each little thing.. basically please don't get truly *intimate* early on. it's going to be a mistake you will remorseful approximately (i'm telling you from journey). you will possibly desire to easily take time genuine now to get to correctly known adult adult males and contact who you're as a individual. genuine now you're nonetheless looking your self ^_^ take exhilaration on your youthful years.. omg I wish i grew to become into nonetheless youthful, those years have been plenty relaxing. basically don't get too slowed down on one subject or yet another. all of us get our hearts broken sweety, there will be different adult adult males, I promise and that i'm conversing from journey. next 12 months you have gotten your eyes on yet another guy (you will possibly desire to have this one interior the back of your head, yet it truly is punctiliously wide-spread) and perchance the hot guy will certainly be nice and intend to make acquaintances! solid good fortune to you sweety. each little thing would be ok! yet I might desire to tell you.. what you think of is love, isn't love honey.. it truly is what you call a weigh down. The adrenaline and butterflies and thinking "OMG he's so impressive" whenever you notice him.. it truly is organic. inspite of the undeniable fact that it is not love yet. basically stay your existence and be chuffed :)
2016-11-05 21:54:50
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answered by ? 4
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try going to his house and confronting are send him a letter in the mail and tell him how you feel andd tell him you sorry for doing that, and if there anyway to make up for what you did.......tell him you want do that again.....
2006-08-26 18:31:04
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answered by smiley 1
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you were born by yourself play by yourself
2006-08-26 18:29:14
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answered by Anonymous
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