do black women really hate to see a white woman with a black man? and if so, why? to me..love has no color or race.
2006-08-26 18:15:36 · 14 answers · asked by Mother_Of_2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would have to say NO.... It really doesnt bother me. I guess because I date white guys. Hell I don't know. But I think it is ridiculous. If its love, leave it alone. People bitching about it will not change it. Maybe some black women do hate to see it but personally I don't care either way!
2006-08-26 18:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by abeautifullie79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because contrary to some popular belief, racism isn't a trait only found in white people. However, not all or even most black women care about whether a black man and a white woman hook up. Those that do care are generally either jealous or have an over-developed sense of racial pride to the point that they think that black men dallying with white women weakens black people as a whole somehow, which is exactly the same sort of reason white racists hate interracial dating. It's all pretty stupid, but humans of all colors have a great deal of capacity for idiocy.
2006-08-27 01:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Winter Arcane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe black women are afraid that their won't be any black men left. As a black woman, I am happy that interracial dating and marriage has become more of the norm than it was 15 years ago. There are a FEW good guys out there, white, black and asian, too! I think that if more black women tried dating outside our race they would find that the myth is NOT true. You know what I mean...there are some PACKIN white boys out there and some FREAKY Asians as well!!!
2006-08-27 01:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rica_Venia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not an issue of more attractive less attractive. Believe it or not there are VERY BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN IN THE WORLD. In order to understand why black women are offended by this you would have to have a REAL understanding of black culture and where we come from. This goes all the way back to slavery to present day. If you had accurate knowledge of our history then it would be very understandable why it bothers many of us. Also, many black men will deal with a black girl when they are at their lowest in life, she will always have his back and he will claim to love her with all his heart but when he starts doing big things and bling-blinging then all of a sudden (and far too often) he wants to get rid of his Black woman and trade her in for a White girl. Like the black woman isn't good enough to be with now that they have a little $. When he was broke best believe the black woman was the one holding it down.
2006-08-27 01:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Queen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is found in the eye of the beholder. When race or color takes note that is their process not yours. Pray for those who persecute you. Love those who are damaged. shine them on. If we were to get technical. Rarely have I seen a transparent white woman or a black nior man. Race has nothing really to do with it because most of us are sooo mixed anyway it brings you back to the rediculous junior high attitude of weighing out the outside by shallow standards instead of the inside. We all are created equal in the eyes of God. Love those who don't understand and the meaner people are the kinder you get it drives them crazy. God Bless.
2006-08-27 01:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me at all. I have dated white men and I can't understand why they say a black man would hate it. Love has no color
2006-08-27 01:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by hpygrl01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't care what color people are when dating is concerned. I just hate when black men get involved with white females because they want to control them when they know black women like myself isn't going to put up with that ****. Also when black men are with white men then want to say he is assaulting her and wanna take it to court.
2006-08-27 01:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
white woman black woman asians woman hispanic woman
they are all woman to me :)
black men and black woman tend not to get angry. only the ignorant ones do and most of the time its because they have grudes against the race. so really your question is almost the same as asking "why are people racist/and or sexest"
2006-08-27 01:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by matt f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that we would not have to answer for our whole race when other say or do things it's fine but if a black person does something we all are thining the same way that's crap who cares I sure don't.
2006-08-27 01:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by spicequeen0330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of times the opposite race may be a bit jelous of there kind not wanting them and wanting a different race, usually it can be because they think there better than that race
2006-08-27 01:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by xxxbighunglowxxx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋