We've been together over five years and he still won't give me a hot, passionate kiss- even though I've told him lots of times that's my biggest turn-on. Mostly, I get pecks. If I complain enough, he'll try to tongue-kiss me, but he's so obviously uncomfortable that it's like kissing a block of cement. Do I just give up or what?
It has nothing to do with looks- I'm attractive. Nothing to do with hygiene- I have nice teeth and check my breath regularly. Help!
2006-08-26 18:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You said he still wont so that means you knew from the beginning he didn't like that.Some people just don't like it at all..Some are disgusted for some reason.Don't blame yourself.It doesent matter how you look or how clean your mouth is some people just can't enjoy it,but a relationship is about compromise.If he wants to be pleased then he needs to please you.
2006-08-26 18:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how it is effecting your relationship. look, if this is a long term relationship, i dont see what the difference is. just tell him that if he cant keep the fire going by showing you some romance and passion, then just tell him to kiss your *** good bye
2006-08-27 01:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by amy z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just a little...immature in this field. Just be patient. I was like this at a very young age. (Still am, in fact; I'm slow at this kind of growing-up.)
2006-08-27 01:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno. if youre that unhappy you should reconsider the relationship.
but there are tons of passionate kisses that dont involve sticking each others tongues down your throats. try a sensual kiss with wet lips. suck on his bottom lip or lick his top one mid-kiss. mayeb he had a bad experience tongue kisssing and needs to learn how great it can be..
good luck....
2006-08-27 01:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,... I'm at a loss. Frankly, I don't know how you've stayed quite as long as you have.
2006-08-27 01:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Hey he's not wrong.. but if it turns you on?
I find it very exciting too.
2006-08-27 01:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Celtic Tejas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just that some people are like that
2006-08-27 01:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a weirdo huh
2006-08-27 01:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by nadaclue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a freak
2006-08-27 01:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Angie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's gaaaaaaaay
2006-08-27 01:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sass B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋