I rather kiss a girl than a guy.
I rather date a girl then a guy.
I rather look at gay male porn.
I rather have sex with a male (I have never had sex yet).
Does this make me gay?
2006-08-26 18:08:31 · 30 answers · asked by Ryan D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dew whut?
2006-08-26 19:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be bi -- or you may be just somewhat brainwashed. You note two things that have little sexual content. You would rather date a girl than a guy? Is that perhaps because if you dated a guy people would know you were gay and you might suffer some prejudice? If all things were equal, and there was no prejudice and no pressure on you to date girls -- would you THEN (if you can genuinely picture that reality) want to date a girl more than a guy?
Same with kissing. It can be part of foreplay, but if you'd kissed that way much you would have had sex by now. Have you kissed a guy? (by which I mean a guy who reciprocates)? Or have you only kissed girls?
If you like gay porn you know what look you like -- so find a gay boi that is attractive to y ou, and ask him if he will kiss you. Kiss him back. French. What do you feel? Do you still think you would rather kiss a girl -- or was it just lack of experience kissing boys?
It's ok to be whatever you are. You may be bi, you may be gay, you are not straight. Don't be afraid of yourself, accept and embrace yourself and see where it leads.
*hug*
You are wonderful
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-08-27 09:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This makes you a confused closet case. You have NO idea what you like, by your own admission, you have not done anything yet. What is the big deal here...you have too much time on your hands ... so you worry instead of doing something productive. Your jobs for today are:
go make out with a guy
Ask a guy out for a date
Look at straight porn
Have sex with a woman
Then repeat and reverse all genders.
Get back to us tomorrow and let us know...we are just dying to find out.
2006-08-27 09:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like possible bisexuality than anything else. Then again, we don't really know your approximate age either. Lots of males as teenagers have fantasies of male-on-male sex and also look at gay porn. Back to your main question: "Does this make me gay?" I would say , no. Gay men generally know they are different from other men early in their childhoods, and they generally don't date or want to kiss girls.
2006-08-27 03:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-27 01:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get hung up on definition - you just do what you feel is right. Gay/straight/bi means nothing. It is your sexuality and you need to live your life the way you feel is right without any judgment from other social groups wanting to give a label to how you feel. Enjoy your life!
2006-08-27 02:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's the sex with a guy that will make you gay
2006-08-27 02:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it - but heck, you're still growing, there's time to find your place in the scheme of things - you may one day realise that you like kissing men but only want to be with women!
Enjoy the journey of discovery.
2006-08-27 14:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probally trying to have sex with a female and male and see which one you like best, if you like them both, then you are probally bi, if you like they guy, then gay, and if you like the girl, then it sounds like your curious
2006-08-27 08:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by Finally home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are sexually attracted to men. Just because you'd rather kiss and date women doesn't make you straight.
2006-08-27 01:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Rico 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bi-curious or gay who is en-experienced! The curiosity wonders but the fingers stay home!
2006-08-27 01:38:05 · answer #11 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋