my current boyfriend of 20 months cheated on me for the first4 w/ a nasty old guy.i had suspicions and questioned him endlessly only to be lied to. about a year ago, he confessed his bi-sexual history(including 74 women and 12-13 dudes) and swore me to secrecy about the gay stuff. it is eating me up inside as i am the tyoe of person to talk about my problems to deal with them. oh and my dad has had gay relations which i recently made him aware of my knowing,we don't talk and haven't ever had a good relationship. my boyfriend has put his hands on me until november of last year when i called the police. since then, i put my hands on him ten times worse than he ever did w/ no retaliation until he was convicted of the crime last month. anyways, my guy swears he was never gay or even bi-sexual, that he was experimenting and professes his everlasting love for me daily, talking about marriage,kids, and forever- he sounds sincere. he is also in batterers classes and things are going well.
2006-08-26 17:51:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
kick his *** one more time...make it to the curb this time. He should have never put a hand up to you in the first place. As far as the gay thing...secretly, all men want somfin up their butt.
2006-08-26 17:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by deytripper_yeah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run, and run fast. Get a dose of reality before you get a diagnosis of HIV. He is NOT worth any of your time. Go to counseling to figure out why YOU think this type of person is worth even a second thought (I'm not being funny. Sometimes we women have self esteem issues or things from our past which influence a lot of our bad choices in men. Your question indicates poor history/relationship with your father, so maybe there are things to be resolved in yourself before you continue on this pointless and destructive path).
2006-08-26 17:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by tool84u_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say your boyfriend is full of ****! No honestly straight guy is going to want to experiment.Too much drama! Dump him and find someone who will treat you right.
2006-08-26 19:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this guy. He has too many issues. Go to counseling.
2006-08-26 17:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Paisley 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋