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Question

Over the summer break, this guy that i liked had sent me this quiz, at first the quiz was simple like do you like me? or would you go out with me? but then the questions got sexual...i went to my friends for help and they said to tell him how i felt..so i did, well the part about me liking him..well as time went on, he took the quiz and said yes to all the sexual questions...keep in mind we're both 14...then he asked me if i would do it...i wasnt...but we kept talking on the phone and i kept talking to him because i wanted to know why he wanted me to be his first (his motives)when he didnt like me the way i did him, and he knows there are many other girls who like him, he said that I was the only girl from school or anywhere that he trusted, and then he said that he wanted to do it with a girl who liked him for more than the fact that he was "good looking", and everything was fine, until he asked me again, and i said i wasnt going to..because he wanted it as "friends with benifits" and

am i not up for that, im not ready for sex, or taking the risk of a baby, well school started last week , him and his friend came up to my friends and he was talking to them while i was there, COMPLETELY ignoring me, he didnt make eye contact with me, but i couldnt even make eye contact with him, i have 2 courses with him, and he has avoided me ALL week, and he hasnt said ONE word to me...it hurts because even though i feel he was trying to use me, part of me still likes him, because i liked him for so long...there were also things i want to know...so yesterday i sent him a message saying "hey, ok, um is it just me or has it been awkward beetween us??? i mean weve been avoiding eachother all week, and i just wanted to know what is it?" he read the message but he didnt write back...what should i do? and do you have any reason why hes acting this way???...he hasnt deleted me from his friends list and two weeks after or b4 skool he wrote me and we had a normal conversation...but now its

just not the same...so my questions once again are, why is he acting this way? and what should i do?

Answer 1

He's acting that way because he is a jerk, OK? And what you should do is try to get busy with other people and other activities because that is NOT the kind of guy you want to get involved with, especially at your age. You made the right decision. If he was more mature he would have responded to your message and would have been able to maintain a friendship after you turned him down. But, I really think you can find better guys even to have as friends. It's cruel to try to get benefits from someone that really likes you when you're not interested in her. That's manipulative. A true friend would not try to get you involved in something that would end up hurting you. A true friend would have been polite to you when he saw you at school. Move on wth your life and look for better people!!!

Answer 2

At the tender age of 14 it may seem like this is the end of the world and that you have lost a "great" friendship. However, as you get older you will realize that this person is nothing special and was likely just trying to use you for sex. He said the things he thought you wanted to hear and is now sulking because things did not go his way.

You are not able to just turn off your feelings for him so don't feel bad that you are having mixed feelings about this boy. Anyone who would try and pressure you into having sex after you have told him you aren't ready is not worthy of your friendship. Concentrate on what is right for you and remember that there is a great guy out there for you that will RESPECT you and your decisions. Keep you head up.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

He's acting that way because you didn't give in to him!!!! Good for you!! I'm glad to see that there are still some girls out there that respect themselves! Don't talk to him I know it will be hard, but you don't need a guy like that! You need some1 that respects you as much as you respect yourself! And clearly he doesn't respect you, if that's all he wanted was the sex! JERK! UH! anyway, I hope you the best and good luck!

Answer 5

Could be he is treating you this way trying to test you.Maybe he is hoping you will break down and say yes to sex just so he will talk to you again.Please don't be so weak as to fall for it.If he really likes and cares for you he will respect your decision.I'm sure there are other guys in your school that would want you as their girlfriend.

Answer 6

you cant do anything. you are refusing to have sex (which is a good thing, dont do it, not at 14). he may be mad but he has no right to be. you are the one that should be mad. how could he even consider taking away such a special thing that you should share with the one you marry? if hes mad its his problem, and hes the one that needs to get over it. you did nothing wrong. stand strong and God Bless.

Answer 7

humm hes a no good a s s hole dont even think about still like him, all he wants is a girl thats willing to have sex with him forget guys like him now me im another story..... no im kidding but still forget him!