I am afraid that I am starting to stray from my heterosexuality because I am starting to regard women as heartless monsters who all act vile towards me (and they all do.) Lately I have found myself scoping out guys, not all guys, just a small percentage of guys whom I would consider to be good-looking (< 5%). Had I been able to attract females, I probably would never even CONSIDER other men. It's like what I am going through is a coping mechanism.
2006-08-26 17:48:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If that was true then women falling all over a gay guy would turn him straight. I'm bi and let me just say this I have made a lot of female friends and it hasn't helped me change LOL. Also you sound a little bitter and I understand why but try to let who ever has turned you down go and let the anger go and try with a good out look when it comes to the next person, it might help.
2006-08-26 18:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Super 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!
There is no possible way rejection from women can 'turn' you gay.
You either are, or you aren't....or you fall into the middle somewhere.
Looks more like you could be bisexual.
I think the most important thing here is to look in the mirror and see where you are pushing women away. People don't just reject other people for no reason.
The answers are within. The reason is within.
Nothing external can cause "gay".
2006-08-27 01:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try reading some psychology studies people.Yes,men can become gay looking for attachment.They can become transgender,or they look for ways to fulfill their desires.It doesn't have to be rejection by a female,or sexual.When someone attacks you,you gone on the defensive,you put your hands up to protect yourself and try to get away from them.The same goes for rejection.A man by nature has an animal desire he wants to fulfill.When a woman rejects that desire,he pulls away,put's his hands up in a defensive mode.He will hold back deep feelings and thoughts he may have of you,for fear of being rejected again.How would you women feel if you were deeply in love with a man and he rejected your love?Rejection goes both ways for men and women,and during childhood is when we experience most rejection from parents,friends,and school mates.These rejections can transform a person,their personality,and who they become when they get older.We look for attachment,to be liked and excepted for who we are.When you reject a person,they suffer emotionally and may hold back their feeling for fear of being rejected.
2015-03-30 02:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if u were completely 100% straight then u wouldn't look at guys, u might get a bit discouraged from dating girls and get pissed off and start being mean to them but u wouldn't become gay. Just like no gay ppl who face rejection would suddenly want to be straight. Just hang in there u'll find a nice girl (and we aren't all that bad i promise u )or if u are gay a nice guy.
2006-08-26 21:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by bobatemydog 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Bull
If you are straight, you are straight. I know a lot of straight men who feel as you do about women -- none of them have any interest in males.
If you genuinely have interest in males (rather than thinking having sex with them and being friends would be a cool alternative) then you have never been straight, bi maybe -- primarily straight, but not straight.
In such a case, women responding with interest might have kept you from thinking about guys for years, but eventually, you would have.
It's reality.
Regards,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
PS Stray from your heterosexuality? What the hell does that even mean.
Stop psychoanalyzing yourself and enjoy being you, whoever you are.
2006-08-27 02:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doubtful. Most guys are either Gay or they aren't. Some are Bi. I'm betting what you are going thru is similar to some guys in prison, just looking for a sexual release.
2006-08-27 01:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It can not happen. You are perfectly normal: BISEXUAL to some degree. It isn't a coping mechanism at all. You are discovering that you have healthy attractions to things society doesn't like. It's perfectly normal, and frequent rejection has nothing to do with it at all. Don't use that as an excuse, you aren't doing yourself any favors by doing so.
2006-08-26 17:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
NO! Your need to have sex - any sex! - is natural. What can cause a guy to be attracted to other guys is his own inner feelings. Feelings you may not be aware you have. The fact you find women unacceptable is only an impression which may cause you to not wish to be with them. Which in-turn allows you to think in different ways. What you are aware of - you're "feeling" - is only your natural need for sex... period!
2006-08-30 07:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gay, but the females also reject me ALL the time. There was this one woman last year I was trying to date or whatever, and she just ignored me! I gave her sodas all the time and everything. Now I just give up. I'm not straight OR gay. I'm nuetrall. Women ARE evil!
2006-08-26 17:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jim F 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Answer to your question no. It just makes you pay for it instead.
Don't get rejection confused with true sexual orientation. Don't fabricate something that you are not just to get any form of attention.
2006-08-27 13:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by CuriouslySpeaking 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋