Does your husband let his friends kiss you?

Question

A few of my husband's friends hug me and kiss me when we see them. A couple of them have given quick pecks on this lips. It doesn't seem sexual, but it seems odd that they do this and it doesn't bother my husband.

Answer 1

Is it the fact that they kiss you that bothers you, or the fact that it doesn't bother your husband?
Maybe your husband knows that these men are happily married or in committed relationships. Maybe he doesn't see anything sneaky going on. Maybe he just completely trusts you and his friends. Do you only see these men when your husband is around?
I say if they're goodlooking enjoy it. If they're ugly & you don't want them doing it tell them it makes you uncomfortable.
Ask your husband why it doesn't bother him & he'll probably say because he trusts you.

Answer 2

Do you love your husband?
Does your husband love you?
Have you given your husband reason to not trust you?

There is nothing wrong with friends giving you a hug and kiss when you see them.
The pecks on the lips may be a bit iffy, but as long as they aren’t giving you a bit of tongue as well, and that it isn’t turning into a full on pash, then I don’t know that there is anything to be concerned about.
If your husband trusts you, and you are trustworthy, he doesn’t really have anything to be bothered about!!!

Answer 3

Does your husband let his friends kiss you?

Answer 4

Nothing wrong with a non-sexual hug and sometimes quick kiss on the lips. Some people are just more physically friendly than others. If this form of affection is too familiar for you, then the next time you meet, stick out your hand to shake. If it is too late to avoid the hug and they attempt to peck you on the lips,turn your cheek to them so they will have to kiss you there.

Answer 5

Well I can only tell you that where I live (Hawaii) this is the culture. My husband's friends and my friends, both male and female kiss each other on the cheeks and hug each other as a form of greeting.
It is the "norm" here.

Answer 6

I say if your husband lets his friends kiss you he either wants to check for loyalty, or he secretly wants to (watch erogenous moments with u & them) or he is totally secure in his relationship w/you. what really matters is how it makes you feel when being kissed by your husbands so called friends. you may have a husband who has very close and good friends whom feel that if they can simply give you a peck on the cheek, as apposed to having to give you one at all&the (alternative is they can't stand you) I'd say youre in fine company and good standing. you canalways give them a reprieve and tell them if it makes them uncomfortable they don't have to feel obligated to give you a peck
if thats how they feel if its spontaneous just go w/the flow and enjoy the warmth of a nonjealous husband, youve got it good sister!!!!

Answer 7

I would WANT it to bother my husband if i were married. It's the human nature to be a little jealous and I would expect him to be bothered by it somewhat. Atleast tell me something, mention it to me how much it annoys him to see male friend's kissing his wife. If he never mentioned it then I would ask him why he does not find that bothersome. I would be curious to know why.

Answer 8

I always kiss my husbands friends, if they are good looking....
Gotta get what you can.
I especially like my south american friends, we get a kiss on each cheek and the lips....Culture is good.

Answer 9

My man won't let me even socialize with his single friends, let alone kiss (peck). I only get to hang out with his married friends, rarely.

Answer 10

I would have difficulty with a kiss on the lips, a kiss on the cheek is different. Same as if it was reversed, think my girl would have problems with it as well.