What do you do when everyone around you wants you to have a child even you husband and you so know you aren't ready how do I tell eveyone to back off in a nice way?
2006-08-26 17:45:37 · 19 answers · asked by sarah silly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell them that you have a few goals you want to achieve before you have a baby, or tell them you don't have any place to put a kid.
2006-08-26 17:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by guitargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say what's on your mind, but be prepared to deliberate why, because its kind of hard if everyone is expecting you to have a child. You can also try a different tactic, sth like i will need permanent nanny or for your parents to take care of the kid. Meaantime time will pass and everyone will kind of cool off.
2006-08-27 00:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell them to MIND THEIR BUSINESS. listen it's ur life not anyone elses and if u and ur husband arent ready for children yet just tell everyone else to chill out. u will get pregnant when the time is right for u and him and not everyone else. I know howother ppl can be especially moms, my mom bugged be forever about it and then I told her to just give us a little time and when we were ready she was born and now shes 4 months old.
2006-08-27 00:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them it wouldn't be fair to the child to be born to parents that weren't 100% ready to care for them. When you feel ready, which you know you will eventually, then you'll have one.
2006-08-27 00:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by Just Ducky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking for financial support. Tell them you need a health care and college fund for the baby before it comes.
Probably that will quiet them some
2006-08-27 00:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by apup76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you will be the one to decide when your ready, and sorry if they can't understand... that's a very important decision that you and your husband will discuss....
2006-08-27 00:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindly ask them are they going to help support the baby.Tell them when you 2 are ready you will have one.
2006-08-27 02:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a nice way tell them your not ready and if they persist give them a few reasons why your not ready
2006-08-27 00:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that right now the time is not right. that you want to provide the best situation when you bring a innocent child into this world.
2006-08-27 00:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my favorite is it will happen when it happens but you need to look at is he the only child and is there illness in the family if so have the child you wont see it know way family will be their exspecially if hes the one and only
2006-08-27 01:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by Judy D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋