My Best friends husband is such a street guy, he's always out. And she calls me for advice, I dont know what to say to her. Please Help!
2006-08-26 17:36:53 · 20 answers · asked by skdfjasl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try open strip club at home & make a survey how many married man went to ur house.
I believe ur husband will not hangs out & not all married men will come to ur house
2006-08-26 17:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would venture to say they are not very happy or "contented" at home if they still like to hang out with the guys and do the singles thing quite often. Sounds like maybe they should not have gotten married in the first place. Why did they??? I'm not a marriage counselor, but this is definitely a situation which requires one. I would approach hubby about your needs and suggest counseling. If he refuses to go, go by yourself. Don't give up on him too easily--he may just need some counseling and mentoring. Good luck honey.
2006-08-26 17:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by conni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason they do is cause they can. Tell her to lock the damn door and if he breaks it down to call the cops.
If he says it is his house tell him you don't recognize him he has been out too long and she has found someone else to take up his home time.
They will do and go as far as we their women let them. I don't care what he says when she asks him why. He will try anything and everything to make her the reason he stays out so much. and it is a load of bull sh(t.
Hang that one out on the line and put a up for sale sign on his head.
You go and do some street shopping of your own honey and don't never look back.
2006-08-26 17:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's where to find the type of woman he wouldn't WANT to marry- the skanks, the ones who will tell them exactly what they want to hear, because they don't really have any feelings invested in him. As long as he has the dollar, those easy girls will "holla"! He may be scared of the weight of responsibility, or maybe no one ever taught him how to treat a wife. Men think they know so much, but as far as communication and relationships go, many of them have a lot to learn!
2006-08-26 17:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by tool84u_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all married men hang out at strip clubs. Your friends husband is obviously still living like he's single. It will ruin their m arriage one of these days. I don' think its healty for their marriage. She should talk to him regarding this issues and tell him how she feels about this.
2006-08-26 17:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's immature and not really ready to be that committed. She can go to counseling in order to learn how to deal with this. What will happen when there's a baby involved and Daddy wants to go out to play with the boys? Not a great thought, sister, so think carefully on this one. Are you better off with him or without him? You can't solve your friend's problem. She needs to do it herself.
2006-08-26 17:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to chill out, she can't do EVERYTHING and be the complete advisor and buddy of her husband, let his friends do that for him.
He stays out to act young and talk with the boys about cars and football and life's unanswered questions. This is good for him.
As he gets older, he'll be spending more and more and more time with his wife.
2006-08-26 17:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men like to be bad, get negative attention from their wives to get a reaction. This behavior should be ignored so that it will not continue.
2006-08-26 17:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by Paisley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a bad husband and is trashy.
My husband doesn't do that . That's because he's a good man with character, dignity, and respect.
2006-08-26 17:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a horrible marriage tell her to find a new man
2006-08-26 17:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by chicata25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋