I'm just wondering: am i being stupid or or is this friend of mine really acting anoing? A friend of mine, can get along really well with my boyfriend. No problem with that. Problem is; i feel ignored by her while she seems to prefer hanging out with my boyfriend. Especially when I'm abroud and left him home alone, she want to hang out together...go to a concert, accompany him to the movies etc. This way of acting by her, i think is quite rude. Hopefully you understand what i meen, my english is poor. Anyway, i would realy like someone to tell me how he/she thinks of this situation. Thanks.
2006-08-26 17:17:22 · 15 answers · asked by melaan_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Waw, you are all so fast. Thanks a lot..i was really doubting my thinking. Some details here..i was friends with her first, we were never really close, but yet it's even less. I talked to her about how I feel, this is just the way she is, not only with myy boyfriend. Some friends of her don't mind her acting like that...i cannot stand it. NAd I hate it even more that my boyfriends does not deside by his owne that he should not hang around with her without me. He told her he should first talk to me about it. I would have liked him to say no, just cause he also thinks it's rude of her...But i can see thing do'nt work like that.
2006-08-26 17:33:48 · update #1
Please talk to her about how you feel.......Tell her that she is invading your space and you need private time with your boyfriend and private time with just the two of you.......If she's your friend (truly) she'll understand and back off.....Take care, honey........
2006-08-26 17:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's trying to take advantage of the time you are away, perhaps. Or, maybe she has no one else to hang around and feels most comfortable hanging out with your boyfriend. If she's a true friend, she's helping you keep tabs on him!! But, I would feel strange about the whole situation. Sometimes when the cat's away the mice will play. How much do you trust your friend and your boyfriend? Talking to them about it while you are away might put ideas that were not really there in their minds. So, I would just pray for the best, not be destroyed by the worst (if they are fooling around) and just enjoy my time abroad. The only person you can control is yourself (hopefully).
2006-08-27 00:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by tool84u_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what I am thinking is that she is trying to steal your boyfriend! dont get upset with me girl but with the way she is acting, I thinks she is not your friend at all. but as what they say, it takes two to tango, so its not just your so-called "friend" but the problem is also with your boyfriend. He should also understand that he should spend more time with you, hang out with you more than your friend! He should feel what you feel, you are not stupid girl.. follow what your mind tells you cause your heart might be decieving you!.. be careful!
2006-08-27 00:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by debzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is your best friend, thats not good. If your boyfriend is going along with this and wants to chill with her. Your boyfriend and your bestfriend suck. Fine some new people who appreciate you and find a best friend that has a boyfriend. Or better yet find your "bestfriend" a BOYFRIEND.
I understand how you feel.
Good luck
2006-08-27 00:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by yorkie lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend isn't a very good friend. It seems like she is trying to move in on your boyfriend or she is just honestly friends with him so talk to her about it. Say how you feel maybe she didn't realize how annoying she was being.
2006-08-27 00:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbles Will Rule the World!!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beware! Beware! Danger! Danger! If she wanted to go to a movie, she could go with another girlfriend when you'r e abroad, but she chooses your boyfriend. Talk to her ASAP. If she doesn't have ulterior motives, she'll back off, and if she does, you'll know by her reaction. Good luck!
2006-08-27 00:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by mnela2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want my friend hanging out with my man and me not there , if this is what is happening!!! You need to tell her and tell him not to go places with her unless you go !! If she's suppose to be your friend then she would be doing things with just you and her when your b/f isn't with you all!!!! Not doing stuff with him!!! Watch her, she may be trying to steal him from you, i wouldn't trust her !! Don't sound right to me!!! so set her straight now be fore it's too late!!! Would you rather loose her or him?? Or both?? if she gets him!!! If he respects you then he want hang out with her IF you tell him not too!!!!!
2006-08-27 00:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by sports_runner_racing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, well i do think it is very rude of your friend to want to spend her time with your boyfriend,especially when you arent around. she is supposed to be your freind, so i dont understand why she would even want to be with him when your not there. sounds suspicious to me. you should stop that, tell your boyfriend how you feel, then in turn your boyfriend will refuse to go places with her.
2006-08-27 00:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok well.....I'm pretty sure your friend is trying to get into his pants and to be perfectly honest. I'd keep a very close eye out.
2006-08-27 00:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk with your friend and your boyfriend. It seems that your friend may be trying to steal your boyfriend.
2006-08-27 00:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that friend NOW!!!! She is after your man! She wants to hang-out with him,and not you? That's no friend.
2006-08-27 00:21:53 · answer #11 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋