I'm just wondering: am i being stupid or or is this friend of mine really acting anoing? A friend of mine, can get along really well with my boyfriend. No problem with that. Problems is; i feel ignored by her while she seems to prefer hanging out with my boyfriend more. Especially when I'm abroud and left him home alone, she want to hang out together...go to a concert, accompany him to the movies etc. This way of acting by her, i think is quite rude. Hopefully you understand what i meen, my english is poor. Anyway, i would realy like someone to tell me how he/she thinks of this situation. Thanks.
2006-08-26 17:12:34 · 4 answers · asked by melaan_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Waw, you are all so fast. Thanks a lot..i was really doubting my thinking. Some details here..i was friends with her first, we were never really close, but yet it's even less. I talked to her about how I feel, this is just the way she is, not only with myy boyfriend. Some friends of her don't mind her acting like that...i cannot stand it. NAd I hate it even more that my boyfriends does not deside by his owne that he should not hang around with her without me. He told her he should first talk to me about it. I would have liked him to say no, just cause he also thinks it's rude of her...But i can see thing do'nt work like that.
2006-08-26 17:31:58 · update #1
if they were good friends before you two started seeing each other than i would get over it-----but if it is just since you two started dating i would wonder why your bf would put himself in a situation to be seen out with another girl while your gone unless he is cheating
2006-08-26 17:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by s91601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kinda hard making time for both a best friend and a boy friend, but she is totally ignoring you. Maybe you should kindly tell her that you miss her and you want to atleast have some girl time together. If she doesn't listen to you, soon enough she is going to get sick of being with her bf 24/7. Hope that helps. Good luck sweetie! :o)
2006-08-27 00:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's being rude and not acting like a good friend.
2006-08-27 00:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep an eye on your girlfriend,and that she wants to do it with your boyfriend.but if you can't trust your boyfriend around her then you should get another boyfriend.
2006-08-27 00:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by mobilmen59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋