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Question

okay i was talkin to my mom the other day and she said that i shouldn't date out my race cause eventually in the heat of the moment anyone who isn't (black) will call u the n word (ya'll know what word i mean) lol but i said i would date a white guy or etc. but never marry one cause well...hate to say it but they age really badly like wrinkles everywhere lol so what do u think...? who looks the worst old? lol (i know bad question but i was wondering cause their really cute when their young lol)

i don't think my answer is racist ppl i mean its shallow but not racist lol ppl chill out lol

Answer 1

It's funny how I see some of the non-Black answerers getting so offended from this question when I read at least 5 or more racist questions on here daily that are geared towards Blacks. But to answer the question, I know some REALLY handsome old white men, I mean, fine as hell, for some reason I don't see some of them wrinkling, but I know their women usually start pretty young wrinkling. If a person doesn't have hate in their heart, then you won't have to worry about them using the n-word. What's in the heart comes out the mouth and if they have no prejudice against blacks, they won't call you anything but your birthname. Tell mama you have to make your own choices too, if I would've listened to my mom and let her run my life, I'd be a total mess right about now.

Answer 2

Sorry to break it down to you but your mom is so wrong. First because the United States is a melting pot containg a rich, cultural mix, where the spice is the variety, And second, you have no control of who you get in love with. This is the case of Muslims, the parents have to like the guy. The guy has to be in the same religion and practice the religion. The parents of the guy must have money so they pay for the wedding, QUE HARTERA! like they will sleep with the guy. Its all about you, you date what you like, if you like a lizard and its green, AMEN!

Answer 3

Black guys can age just as badly as white ones can. This is a personal issue and only you can make this decision. It's not my preference, but if that's what you want then go for it.

Answer 4

Your Mom is wrong, but obviously wants to protect you. Most people find that word to be offensive.

BUT yes, black people don't age! It makes me jealous. Your melanin protects you from sun damage and premature aging. By the time a black woman looks old, she is OLD and I mean OOOLLLLDDD! Not that way for us.

Answer 5

I'd say if you are looking for a partner based on looks and potential looks in the future.....well....that just sounds shallow. Once you get to know someone, they just become more attractive to you.
I feel it is ok to date/marry outside of your race if you are strong enough emotionally to deal with the outside bull**** and more importantly teach your children to be proud of who the are and to be strong enough to deal with those who are narrow minded and speak their puny little minds.

Answer 6

I am 43, and I don't have any wrinkels, shoot, I don't have any grey hairs on my head, and i even get i.d. some times. and there is nothing wrong to date out of your race. we all are GODS children. besides. i always wanted to date a black women. but never did.

Answer 7

how's this? I'm 31 & still get asked for i.d. when i go to the local clubs around here! does that tell you how the white man ages?

Answer 8

I look the worst old! lol ( I hope not, i am still young)

Answer 9

''...There are still questions of wisdom, having to do with the very human challenges of marital compatibility, cultural compatibility, and the impact of societal racial prejudices upon couples and upon their children...''.

Answer 10

yeah, a real bad question and i'll just take the points and keep your name in mind to skip the rest of your questions.