was wondering what other people did he wanted me to get rid of it so i kicked him out.. what did you do?
2006-08-26 17:00:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I applaud you. You are strong.
You will be a great mother... you're already putting your baby first above others (perhaps including yourself as you are now without a partner).
Single parenthood is a challenge.
I wish you a wonderful pregnancy and a beautiful baby.
2006-08-26 17:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, unfortunately this happens way too often to women. I have two children, with two different fathers. Both times that I got pregnant, I was actually broken up with my ex's and we were just still sleeping together. Neither boyfriend told me that they wanted me to have an abortion but the thought went through my head. I was young and scared and I didn't trust that these men would step up and be fathers. I chose to keep both of my children regardless of my circumstances and I thank God all the time that I didn't give up my children. You are doing the right thing. Stay strong, and if your partner does not want a relationship with his child then it will always be his loss. Pray to God for guidance. Be Blessed.
2006-08-26 17:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by smiles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, my man did the exact same thing. It is just nerves. They are scared to be a parent. Everything will change once the baby is born and your partner can hold the baby. Your partner is afraid of change. This is very common.
2006-08-26 17:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by trace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand....first you say you couldn't conceive now you are pregnant and your "partner" (what ever this means) doesn't want the baby. Weren't you two talking to each other?
You should have told your "partner" (maybe this means the man I was shacked up with and having sex with) if he doesn't want to make babies and still have sex he should get a vasectomy. As for you, you shouldn't be making babies without a commitment. What were you expecting from a man who has no respect for you?
2006-08-26 17:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing, honey! Besides, if he's not supportive of you or your decision to have and keep your baby now, chances are he will not be supportive when the baby is born. Anyhow, who needs him? I did the same with the father of my children, after my last. Unfortunately, in my case it took me 14 years to wake up. My best to you, and your baby. You will find that you will have all the emotional support that you need with your family and loved ones.
2006-08-26 17:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by brendalyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he did not want the baby, he should use protection or found some way not to get your pregnant. Now you are, and he doesn't want it, he is not responsible and should be out of your life, because what you need is a man!
It is your baby and you have the right to decide if you want it or not, not him!
2006-08-26 17:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by kathy T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready to be a mother and feel that you will get the support you need from family and friends, then definitely keep the baby. Also if you feel alone remember there are tons of organizations out there to assist single mothers.......So kick that buster,loser,clown to the curve, and be strong!!!!...Congratulations!
2006-08-26 17:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by pregnant & praying now has baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he might even try to say its not his to get out of paying child support... so u might have to take a dna test too... but i think he shoulda got his *** knocked on the street. if i was the father of any child i would take responsability because i grew up without a father n i dont want my child to grow up like that
2006-08-26 17:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey,,,, sorry to hear about this,,,, you did the right thing,, by kicking his sorry a** out.... now go on with your life and make something out of yourself ......
Good luck
2006-08-26 17:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me. I refused, my husband left. My "unwanted" son is 21 years old, married, an eccstatic new father and a proud soldier. Glad I refused, glad he left.
2006-08-26 17:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋