Me and my boyfriend are expecting and he says he want to marry me because of it and because he cant see himself with nobody else. the thing is i'm 16. people say i'm too young. am i Please help me!!!!!
2006-08-26 16:45:35 · 13 answers · asked by miequa k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'll be blunt. Yes, you are way too young to even begin to understand love, and way too young to get married. Don't. Please don't.
2006-08-26 16:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by jellyfishwich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the maturity of the person. I believe that you can fall in love @ any age, I fell in love at 16, I knew that I wanted to be with him for a long time and I was. He turned out to be a psycho eventually and we parted ways, but there are some people who marry young and stay married FOREVER. In this day and time there are so many obstacles for people and financially it is hard to make it at any age, ESPECIALLY 16. You have already made a life altering decision when you decided to have a baby. This child deserves a good family. It is very hard raising kids all alone. Not impossible, but not easy. You have to ask yourself some questions. Will the father be a good husband and father? or will he be someone that will cause more problems than anything else in your lives? This may be hard to do at 16 so you may want to hold off on nuptials for now and have a long engagement to see how it works out after the baby and maybe after you've finished school.
2006-08-26 16:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Queen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on the baby. But yes I'd say 16 is too young to be married. Let him proove himself and try to be a great dad for your baby. Then in 2 years if he's still with you and is the most romantic husband type you can immagine sure marry him. But don't forget the lesson you learned. Sex and relationships at too young of an age have consequences. No your baby is not and never will be a bad consequence. He or she is a real blessing from God. Love him or her as such and good luck in dealing with life. I feel sorry for the both of you because now you're growing up way too fast. But it will all work out. Good luck girl and congrats on the baby.
2006-08-26 16:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it few years. A pregnancy can really test a relationship. If things are meant to be, then you will still be together when you are both older and have a better idea what life is about. I'm 30 and I can tell you that you have no idea how much you change in your late teens into your 20s. When you grow and mature and your boyfriend is still around and wants to marry you, then do it. But don't do it just because you are pregnant.
Just try to wait a while before you have another baby. Live your life and enjoy yourself before you get tied down with kids. Because once the kids start coming, your life is no longer your, it is theirs.
2006-08-26 16:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by lion75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him why not
Baby needs a father (you said you're expecting, right?), it is better to have a father than not to have one. Your boyfriend is a good man - not like many. He mants to marry you. Many would try to wiesel out and run away.
people are in love when they can't stop thining about each other. People love each other when they deeply care for each other and each other's feelings.
2006-08-26 16:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love at sixteen.
Love isn't having your ideal "dream" girl or guy because, to be honest, there is no such thing. We all have some flaws in some way. Love is learning to accept this girl or guy and taking in the good and the bad. It's loving every single thing about the person. You notice every little quirk that person does.
2006-08-26 16:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a little bit too young, but if you both love each other and youre going to have a baby then get married. hopefully things go the way you want them to go. congrats on the baby.
2006-08-26 16:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Chickitita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa!!! you have a lot going on here. having a baby is no reason to get married. it's honorable that your man wants get married, but, marriage is a HUGE step. the 2 of you should just focus on your child, and slowly build your relationship. don't rush into it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you still have a lot of living to do.
2006-08-26 16:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry him....he is the father to your baby to be and if it doesn't work well......
2006-08-26 16:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by babydoll1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the difference between like and love is a spit and a swallow( ewwww grossss!) lol
2006-08-26 16:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Riddle Me This 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋