i know you can't make some one like you.
but what helps?
2006-08-26 16:39:11 · 9 answers · asked by blahblahblah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think by being yourself. But trying to find out what things they like. This way you'll know what their interests are. And if you talk to them they'll feel closer to you because of this. Try to always be friendly and smile at them. Be caring toward them. You obviously care for this person. So try to show them this. Sometimes when someone feels how much you care for them that is maybe one way you can make them like you more. They might not still like you more in a romantic way. But at least they'll care for you more period. Try being they're friend. The best you can be. Be there for them. Think of ways that you think would make you more interested in someone. And apply those ways to him. Good Luck!!!! I hope this has helped a little!!! I know how you feel because I so want this guy to like me more also. I think maybe he does like me a little more then he did. And I think one of the things that made him, was one I mentioned about caring for his feeling. I told him one day I thought he looked stressed and asked him if he was ok? Ever since then he has treated me a little bit different. Heck it's a start!!!!
2006-08-26 16:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way that has worked with a lot of people i've given advice to is to get to know the guy better. Sounds too easy right?
Talk to him in class or when you see him and find out what he's into. After you feel comfortable, invite him out to see a movie you both wanted to see, go ice skating (which can be very romantic) together. Ask him if it'll be okay if it was just you too. That way, you can connect together outside of school. And you can charm the pants off him :)
Good Luck! And also, when you talk to him, smile and touch his arm when you speak playfully. This will hint that you like him without saying it directly.
2006-08-26 23:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Euphony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The standard: "A way to a guys heart is his stomach...." but, it all depends on what you want. If you want a regular Joe, then that should work. But if you want a guy who is more sofisticated, or is into more exotic things, then you may have to work a little harder.
The best advise? Choose someone who has the same intrests as you. Are you involved into any clubs or anything. You have to have a foundation that involves both of your intrests. Thats where you'll find a "Good guy". Otherwise, you'll meet an "interesting guy", and you'll spend a lot of time trying to mold yourselves together.
2006-08-26 23:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are simple (minded), LOL! We don't need women playing lots of "romantic head games" with us. Just tell the guy you like him and tell him, "I'd like to get to know you better "if you're interested". If he is, it's a go...if not, move on to the next one or whatever.
You don't have to pretend to like the same things as him or go to any trouble. If you do that, guys think you're weird and will run in the other direction. K.I.S.S (keep it simple sister)
2006-08-26 23:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might be inappropriate, but show up at his house in a bikini (or less) with a six pack of beer. If he doesn't like you then, something is very wrong.
2006-08-26 23:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking yourself really helps.
Be yourself and be happy. Smile and lough. This is is usually attractive.
2006-08-26 23:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno,i've been trying to figure that out for years.when you find the answer,one that says you don't have to put out,let me know.
2006-08-26 23:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Miss yavatar girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by being friends and let it go from there.good luck
2006-08-26 23:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by little momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dun be a biatch.....
2006-08-26 23:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by Khairudin Bin Salim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋