i have never cheated on my wife, can you say the same and what keeps you from cheating. for me, a good wife.?

Answer 1

I could never and would never cheat on my wife.

I understand why people say they won't cheat because they have a good husband or wife, but that does not factor in to my behavior at all. Even if a wife or husband isn't "good," I don't think it is right, justified, okay, etc. to cheat on them which is why how good they are doesn't figure into my decision.

I agree with the people who say they won't cheat because of the vows they took. After promising to their spouse, friends, family and whatever higher power they subscribe to, I don't see how a person could live with themselves after they break the only promise I know of that a person makes to everyone who cares about them.

To the above point, the main reason I could never cheat is because I could not live with myself for doing so. I have seen the pain that cheating spouses has caused my friends, and no one deserves that. No matter how miserable my wife was, I could not live with the fact that I hurt her that bad. I could not even imagine facing my family and closest friends if I did something so horrible. No one that really loves me and really cares about me would justify that kind of behavior or find in anywhere near acceptable, because, it is not.

I guess, it all boils down to the fact that I have a heart, and anyone who cheats does not. People who cheat only love and care about 1 person, themselves. I cannot imagine this level of selfishness and heartlessness.

Answer 2

Sorry, never cheated on a wife before..lol

Answer 3

I never cheat on my wife... and I don't plan to either. She's the greatest person in the world and I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. Plus, I have no reason to look elsewhere in the first place.

Answer 4

Good for you. I believe cheating on anyone is the lowest thing you can ever do to them, it lowers their self esteem and they may never get it back. I don't care how miserable a relationship is, you get out then find someone new. I'd never cheat on my husband and he wouldn't on me. Bravo to you, we need more honest, faithful men like you. Your wife is lucky.

Answer 5

I could never cheat on the women I love. It would cause too much pain that life itself would not be worth living. For without this women I would have nothing and being with another women would mean that I have had nothing and be with nothing for eternity.

Answer 6

I have not cheated on my husband. The life I have built with the love of my life, my best friend, and companion is NOT worth destroying for someone I hardly even know.

Answer 7

I never cheated on my husband when I was married. I don't believe in it. I believe you take a vow to stay loyal to your spouse. Once you divorce then go crazy and sleep with anyone you want, but never ever when you are married.

Answer 8

Personal integrity, and staying away from situations which would (or might) compromise that integrity.

Your statement implies that you might cheat if your wife stops being good. I don't know that you mean it that way.

Answer 9

respect for me and my husband is the key.i respect my husband to much to treat him in such a manner. my husband and i agree that what is the point of waisting each others time and life in a relationship that is dishonest.if you are going to cheat, just cut to the chase. get a divorce and dont torcher the other person.

Answer 10

never cheated on my husband. he is a kind, loving caring, selfless, honest, and respectful person. i could not ask for anything more. i try to be the same for him. i think this keeps our marriage happy.