My fiance is currently in america and i'm in australia,his been hanging out with his friend lately and his friends girlfriend has been hanging out with them,she been getting real close to my fiance even though she knows about me,shes even been asking him for massages! he said he gave her a 5second one but felt to uncomfortable,i'm glad he told me but i cant help but be jelous should i be?
2006-08-26 16:23:22 · 18 answers · asked by Chanelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he told you don't be jealous. He's a GOOD GUY. How long will he be in the USA???? Maybe,you could come for a visit....
2006-08-26 16:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 00:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, some jealousy is healthy and you should tell him. He might have even hoped you would express some claim on him out of his own insecurities since he told you about the incident.
He sounds like an honest guy...be honest with him.
2006-08-26 16:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you trust him than don't be at least he was honest enough to tell you.my husband works out of town and it was hard at first.but we both know what we have.and respect and trust each other. as far as the girl i ever had the time to talk to her i would confront her and tell her to have some respect for some one who is engaged and tell her man to massage her or leave.
2006-08-26 16:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by little momma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't be jealous but can't say I blame you for feeling that way. As long as your fiance was honest with you about it, you have nothing to worry about.
2006-08-26 16:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would play her game better. I would reassure him and tell him any woman would want him you are so glad he picked you. Be sweet and wonderful and let him know how much it means to you to have him and that he tells you things!
She might be into him but he sounds to me he belongs to you.
Good Luck!
2006-08-26 17:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help how you feel. right or wrong, your feelings are incontrolable. just talk with you guy, voice your misgivings. and it wouldnt hurt to try and make friends with this girl. if you got to know one another, maybe it would ease your mind.you know guys, they are not going to say "hey, i got a girlfriend, i can't give you a message".men dont like to appear p***y whipped.he kept it short so as to not look chicken but he kept his respect for you. atleast he told you, right?
2006-08-26 16:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by wifeofsickening 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be too jealous, he told you about it. Thing is long-distance relationships are hard, do you guys have enough trust to get you through.
2006-08-26 16:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be!
that woman shouldn't be asking your fiance for massages, she should be asking her boyfriend!
2006-08-26 16:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you about it and he said he felt uncomfortable. that means that he is thinking about you.
the real foundation of any good relationship is communication and trust.
2006-08-30 15:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋