She tells me that she enjoys sex wheather she orgasms or not but i know she fakes it sometimes. I just want to give her as much pleasure as possible as one of the ways I show her how much i love her
2006-08-26 16:21:37 · 12 answers · asked by alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give her a lot of foreplay, women take longer to get ready than men. Lick her well, it will calm and soothe her lol. The wait will make her crave you more. Try to think of pleasing her more than pleasing yourself. Once you have made her wet and ready then she will be more than happy to return the favor. Think of how you'd want to be completelely satisfied if you were her (a woman). Put yourself in her shoes for a little while until you get the hang of it. Patience is all it takes for great sex. Add a little surprises in as well, Unexpected poking :P and teasing. Excite her, passionate yet naughty. Do as the song suggests, John Mayer 'Your body is a wonderland'- Make hers a wonderland and explore every area of her body.
2006-08-26 17:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, start off with a long relaxing message, to her. Use some of the new warm/hot body oil, not lotion. While giving her the message, ask her questions about what she likes the best. Don't be afraid, just ask, because you won't know unless she tells you. Start there and see what happens. Try to do this on a weekly basis, the exploration with each other. Also, add a little candlelight and wine to the experience. Good luck.
2006-08-26 16:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I give specific advice, though, I’d like to throw in a broadside comment: Think of your married sex life as a career—not a temp job. You may be frustrated now, but imagine how much worse it will be in 30 years!
::DO::
(1) encourage the romance.
(2) sex is as much (if not more) about intimacy as intercourse,
(3) have nicknames for each other
(4) cuddles before, during, after
2006-08-26 16:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by doon19462000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
orgasm is a bonus kind of stuff when you make love. I think women can feel the happiness and satisfaction without the orgasm. don't force her to fake it. if she does, she also wants to show her love to you.
2006-08-26 16:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be always intune with her needs and wants. Hand cuffs, lot and lots of handcuffs - the fluffy ones. Don't forget the bunnies, they can do all the massaging of the clit for you. THEY ARE THE BEST!!!!
2006-08-26 17:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by s_ruiz83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about what my husband and I call a "trip to the moon" Oral sex is a great way to do that
2006-08-26 16:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of forepay
massage clit and g-spot
during the sex act, lot of sweet talk and some dirty talk
and dont forger afterplay(tell her how much u have enjoyed), nudge closer to her, play with her breasta
2006-08-26 16:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a class to where they can show u how to please ur wife sexually such as the orgasm class without having intercourse just give her an o by touch she will deeply desire u more. where i got this is sexual healing on showtime or HBO not sure which one
2006-08-26 16:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an extension
2006-08-26 16:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the art of fingering
2006-08-27 04:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋