My man's argument is that it is natural and ALL men enjoy watching it and fantasise about it whilst masturbating. I think it cheapens sex and makes casual sex appealing whereas I feel sex should only be between two people who love each other. Are there any genuine men out there who feel sickened by it or just don't enjoy it?
2006-08-26 16:19:54 · 22 answers · asked by sali_starr 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You must understand that, for men, sex is mostly physical. We can enjoy it more when we love the other person because we want them to feel pleasured, however we don't have the same mental and phsychological connection as women do. Any man that claims otherwise is merely trying to appeal to you.
I have found, though, that porn, like any other endorphin causing agent, is addictive therefore requiring more and more to satisfy than before. It would be best for men that are in a relationship to refrain from watching or looking at porn because the fantasies tend to lead to wishing to make it real, hence causing a break in the tether that connects us to one another.
2006-08-26 16:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by BBQribs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so Miss High and Mighty has appointed herself judge over men, has she? "Genuine men", eh? I'll tell you what sort of man does not enjoy the sight of a naked or near-naked shapely young woman: he's either a liar or a gay.
For your information, nature programmed the male to be sexually stimulated by what we see and smell. It's how we've selected our mates since before we climbed down outa the trees and started walking on two legs instead of four. That has not changed despite the fact that nowadays we wear artifical coverings and work in an office rather than toss pointed sticks at our food.
Sex is not just for procreation. It certainly strengthens bonds between men and women; that's WHY it's so exquisitely, outrageously, joyously FUN. Use your brain, girl: if it weren't, us guys wouldn't bother with it and you gals would get awfully lonely!
2006-08-26 23:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men do like it, and it's unimportant. It's eye candy, nothing more. It's probably less emotionally important to guys than shopping is to a lot of women. It does not cheapen sex. It's different from real sex the same way movies are different from real events.
Most men do have the sense to know that many women are sickened by porn and to avoid indulging in an in-your-face way that lets the women in their lives know that they are indulging.
2006-08-26 23:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do all women enjoy reading erotica and why is it so appealing?
Women read it while working the dildo and have fantasies. It can be argued this cheapens sex and makes casual sex more appealing. Think about that one, sugar ti-ts.
2006-08-26 23:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Leif Ericson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so appealing because some thing s on there your wife or partner won t do and the fact that being men we are curious about every females body also learning new techiques are always good
2006-08-26 23:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by glass_city_hustla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most men do enjoy porn but evryone has a diff point of view for it, i stopped watchin porn whn i fell in love.
2006-08-26 23:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Random Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone likes porn, but all men like to masturbate. Sex is a bodily function, there's nothing holy about it, so why put it on a pedestal?
2006-08-26 23:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by Will 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, not all men. there are sum few out there, but its only becuase they havent seen it. and if they start, they just cant stop. its an addiction like drugs. its apealing because it gives them their temporary excitment when their g/f is gone or busy. pigs. men are just pigs. they cant even help it. urgh.
2006-08-26 23:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think. Men and women can enjoy sex if they WANT to.
In our society, if a man likes porno, it 's OK. But if a woman likes porno, it's a big scandal.
2006-08-27 01:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that's not really fair... just as many girls look at porn and use dildos, etc.... not all minds are the same. it's not fair to call all guys pigs whens that's simply not true....it's the same as guys sayin all girls are sluts. so no not all guys are like that.
2006-08-26 23:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋