2006-08-26 16:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Plan a romantic weekend getaway....
2006-08-26 16:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try a few things. Like visiting a sex shop. Not one of those nasty ones, with the shady windows and masturbation booths in the back.. But one thats more suited for a female. (Check to see if you have a "Cindies" in your area, probably not, but it's worth a try!). Try going there, and buying a couples game.. It's usually something like truth or dare, but you can find some that are board games. This might spark some interest in the both of you!
Sometimes, with females, their spark comes from the emotional strength in a relationship. When a couple first gets together, the man is usually a lot more attentive. Doing nice things for her, giving her a massage, buying her flowers or candy.. Or ordering take out one night to save her the hassle of cooking.. Those things make us tingle, and our attraction grows from that. So try doing some nice things for her. Bring her home flowers, and when she asks why.. Say, because I love you, and don't show it enough!
Order from her favorite restaurant (or take her out!!) and sit back and relax and watch one of her favorite movies. Little things like that really make a girl feel appreciated and attractive! Which helps get things moving!
2006-08-26 23:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Constantly seduce her, I don't mean sexually, I mean give her the attention you probably gave her when you guys first met. Help around the house, Thank her for all she does. Compliment her.
Say something like "when you smile like that your eyes are so pretty" WEll that might freek her out. LOL
Sometimes at night hold her without sex. be tender. Kiss her neck. Say things like......"you had a long day honey...sleep well"
Basically give her more attention. Before you get up in the morning kiss her and say something sweet.
Inspire her to rekindle that spark. It begins with you.
2006-08-26 23:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the spark plugs. Maybe a short vacation.
2006-08-26 23:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dean B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try trying to find out what you did to her to hurt her maybe ! Ask questions If you did something to cause her any pain in your marriage and are REAL NICE she may open up to you ! If she is having an affair which may not be the cause...look back and examine your marriage and see where you may have hurt her . I hope you guys resolve this matter.
2006-08-26 23:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what the cause is! Ask her what she likes and let her know you are willing to go the extra mile!
Did something happen that caused this?
Be a detective and tell her you want to work this out with her!
Make sure you know you will do what you can to light her fire. Good luck!
2006-08-26 23:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
romance the hell out of her dinner by candle light roses all over the house a bubble bath a massage taking her dancing to a play write a poem for her if you can take her to lunch on her lunch break if you can pick her up from work by her sexy lingerie
2006-08-26 23:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing but seek some help or spark it up or dump her
2006-08-26 23:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by tattoo282001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your fore play. Don't do the same ole routine. Romance her first. Try something different that you would not have done before.
2006-08-26 23:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could probably use some help from a TV series called One Week To Save Your Marriage on TLC........seriously it would help you a lot...........romance her........bring her flowers....tell her you love her......leave notes around the house.........tell her she is beautiful....show her you love her, care for her, and appreciate......her.....do the dishes, vaccum........take her out to dinner, a movie...........and well the rest is up to you and her....good luck.........:)
2006-08-26 23:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋