My fiance and i have been talking about expirementing sexually. both of us are open to trying new things so she agreed to let me give her anal as long as i found a way not to hurt her. well, i did some research and the more I looked I found info on how enjoyable anal can be for men. Is there anything wrong with me for waning to try anal?
2006-08-26 16:00:52 · 27 answers · asked by alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
anal sex can be very gratifying for both men and women!!! It will hurt when inserting the head, but once that's in, don't let it come back out, and the majority of the pain is over and then if you do it right, and possibly with some clitoral stimulation, she can enjoy it more than you!!! Then she will want it right along with you... Oh yeah, if she does it to you w/ like a vibrator or something like that, than it can be very pleasurable for you too!!! Being a freak in the bedroom is okay (and the kitchen and the couch and the wash machine, etc.) so ENJOY
2006-08-26 16:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there is absolutely nothing wrong with you wanting anal sex! SO many men are just the same...and no you don't have to be gay or even bi-curious to enjoy this.... its just another stimulation ....and i am telling you now u will love it...i have been with lots of men that love anal play...not necessarily being F*cked with anything big... but definitely playing...fingers...small probes....butt plugs ...all good! i have included a link to a great sight...as i am a true believer that anal sex needs to be done properly FIRST time ... or you will be scared to try again!
good luck and i hope you both get to enjoy the wonderful experience together!
2006-08-26 16:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I am a woman and I love anal.
Actually, there are ways to make it less painful. It depends on the way the man inserts it.
I'd just suggest that if your wife has yet to do it, be gentle the first time.
You can actually orgasm (i am living proof) from anal sex; so both of you have an opportunity to receive pleasure! =]
2006-08-26 16:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-30 01:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is ever wrong as long as both participants are consenting and of legal age to consent. most people have a little "freak" in them in the bedroom they just don't talk about it in public. Go for it.
2006-08-26 16:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no nothing is wrong for wanting to enter the third hole just be easy and give her a drink first you must have a drink to ease the mind and relax and be gentle on her happy love making
2006-08-26 16:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. It's much more fun for men than for women (yay for the prostate), it doesn't make you gay, and she'll love being "in charge" for a change.
Just take it slow... and use lots and lots (and lots) of lube.
2006-08-26 16:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No,your'e not crazy; I want to give her anal also
2006-08-26 16:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you everybody has a fantasy needing to be fulfilled ." Go for it".
2006-08-26 16:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Alex Cross 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont let anyone call you gay. GAY IS WHO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH NOT HOW YOU HAVE SEX! my husband and i began doing anal 7 years ago.first he gave it to me, and then, he seen that i enjoyed it so much, that he wanted me to try it out on him. trust me, my husband isnt even close to being gay, we just like all sorts of sex together.start slow now. just let her loosen you a bit with her fingers and plenty of ky jelly.when it comes to penetration, you cant just put it in!ouch!take your time push it in alittle then take it out. like that until your body adjust.
2006-08-26 16:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by wifeofsickening 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋