2006-08-26 15:49:35 · 22 answers · asked by om nomnom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It was a flake, we used a condom, and i was out of town. I have never done this kind of thing before.
2006-08-26 16:10:37 · update #1
yes
2006-08-26 15:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by mtajkt69 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO. What you need to do is question yourself about how deep these feelings are about your partner. Are they someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? Do you think they would tell you?
I can tell you this....it's easier to let the cat out of the bag than it is trying to get it back in there.
If you feel as though you have to tell him, then tell him.
Otherwise, shut up. And always make sure you practice safe-sex from now on. Capiche? Don't play.
2006-08-30 00:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....There is no reason to hurt your partner by telling him or her. If you do love your partner, your relationship will never be the same if you tell him/her. There will always be some sense of mistrust.
It was a one night stand.....if you feel guilty....don't do it again. If you feel the need to do it again, reconsider your current relationship.
2006-08-26 22:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_n_friendly_0000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a partner and you have a one-night stand than of course you should tell your partner. I expect that they have trust in you, when you choose to violate that trust it is not only your partners right to know but if they choose to stay with you they should protect them selves from the diseases and damage you caused.
2006-08-26 22:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you want to hurt him/her. If it's just a one-night stand and doesn't mean anything to you, keep it to yerself, but you must be prepared NEVER to tell yer partner about it, not even on yer death bed, coz it will hurt him/her a lot more to know about it years later.
To me, an occasional shag's no big deal, but a lot of ppl regard it as a capital crime.
2006-08-26 22:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your objective? What do you think will be the consequences? How will you explain why you indulge in it, if your relationship with your partner is one which is solid. Is there a good reason for it?
What he doesn't know will not hurt him!
The more important question is: Will you do it again or do you regret doin it?
2006-08-26 23:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having a one night stand if you have a partner.
2006-08-26 22:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by danngazz67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happened before him; no. Don't bring up old stuff, that is irrelevant and will always cause an argument....
ex: All of the women I've slept with has nothing to do with my current lady friend.
2006-08-26 22:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes most deffinatly, you should be always truthful to your partner even if it might hurt them because its better to be truthful all the time instead of your partner finding out you lied.
2006-08-26 22:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by inked_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? on both counts? Sheesh....first of all you really don't have a lot of respect for yourself do you? Secondly you don't have a lot of respect for your partner! Chances are real good that they already suspect. Honestly...why would you do this to yourself? let alone two other people???
2006-08-26 22:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by onlyonemeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, always be honest....trust is really hard to gain back so he might not trust you for a while but be patient and see where the road takes you.
2006-08-27 00:15:32 · answer #11 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋