A friend of mine hooked up with my b/f a few months ago. She said she was sorry and I forgave her. Two weeks ago, she did it again. She says she is sorry, but I dont buy it. Am I being unfair, do I give her another chance?
2006-08-26 15:38:58 · 27 answers · asked by ASsundevils 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Shame on them if it happens once, but shame on you if you let this happen again....wake up and smell the coffee. Unless you want more heart ache....With friends like yours, you need no enemies.
2006-08-26 15:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to follow your first mind, it is ususally the correct one. Your friend and boyfriend has obviously been doing some socializing you are unaware of. If this is your true friend appologies are a bond and to break it with the same deed is kind of a slap in the face. You would not be unfair if you cut them both off for a while and see what answers they come up with for the situation. Be prepared for anything, if they will go to the extremes to sneak, once you leave the ball in their court, they may run with it. But again, it is what is best for you and your future relationship with these people, true colors and emotions may fly.
2006-08-26 22:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. The only way she is your friend is by weeding out total losers.
I know it hurts but it will get better and someday you will hear of her comeuppance. Hopefully from a long distance. You probably aren't the first friend she's done this too. She may even need counseling but you can't help her. Use your time you would spend with her cultivating other friends, working out or just doing something nice for you.
2006-08-26 22:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by robyn o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your same boyfriend that she hooked up with before...you have to be either the most insecure person or the stupidest. Why whould you want a friend or a BF that are both untrustworthy? I don't even see why you are asking the question should that be the case. If it's only your friend...she isn't a friend.
2006-08-26 22:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by northcoastjunior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, what ur friend is doing is really mean and she is portraying your trust, this happend to me once but i also forgave her but since then our friendship has not been the same, where there is no trust there is no friendship. i think u need to speak to her about it and ask her where u stand, there is no point in putting in 100% and not getting it back in return.. it is up to you, maybe she is not worth it.
2006-08-26 22:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by tahlia_baker28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really sorry the first time. She wouldn't have done it the second.
My Answer: Kick the boyfriend and your friend to the curb.
2006-08-26 22:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by LaLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as my mom always says 'sorry means you don't do what u did wrong again'. no, ur not being unfair. if u give her another chance, you're being a doormat.
2006-08-26 22:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by kelleygaither2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man.. Grab her by the hair and throw her down some stairs. Then take your "bf" and kick him in the nuts as hard as you can. Both of them should go to hell. Don't waste your time with either of these loser skanks.
You deserve better!
2006-08-26 22:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! But why are you simply taking it out on HER? It takes TWO to tango and your boyfriend certainly played some part in the act! DUMP him AND get rid of her!!! Be good to yourself.
2006-08-26 22:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give her another chance,you are a real FOOL! lose her and the boyfriend too. You can't trust them.
2006-08-26 22:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋