Well I am in the process of getting rid of my husband of 5 yrs. I am rasing my two daughters but I just feel all alone. Wondering if any one alse feels the same way.
2006-08-26 15:00:36 · 25 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I you are with your daughters, then you ara not alone! You are all for them and they are everything for you!
2006-08-26 15:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by PeruChismo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got divorced a couple of years ago. We were married for 5 years and I have 2 girls too. It was extremely hard at first. Especially since my ex is a horrible idiot - he made the divorce a nightmare. Things are much harder for me now financially. And yes, sometimes its depressing to not have a family (mom/dad/kids) and that extra person to help out. But I am so glad I am not with him anymore. My friends helped me through it alot and on the weekends they are with their dad, I enjoyed the time I got to spend alone. It gave me a chance to go out and have some fun. I am currently dating someone too. It does get better!
2006-08-26 15:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by flowwjoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This past week I've finally learned to realize that I'm never really alone. My friends and family will always be there for me, that's how lucky I am. It kind of makes me feel like an idiot though that it took be almost 16 years to get that right. x________X .
Just know that as long as you want help or need help, and you ask for it, someone will lend you a hand.
Of course I feel alone, because I am right now. But do I feel lonely? Not at all.. okay fine.. 10%-20% percent of me?
2006-08-26 16:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by xxeverlasting 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congratultions!Geuss what theres a whole other world out side your door!Call some friends make mixed drinks with real fruit and feel the freedom!Have no friends or not enough? Go with your daughters in the morning to the bus stop you would be surprised at how easy these ladies are to talk to.Start talking to your neighbors you might be surprised at how interesting they are.
2006-08-26 15:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes i totally agree with you! I feel lonely too. I'm in the process of gettin rid of my bf who i have been with for almost 5 years and we have a 3 year old son! I wish i could talk to my friends about it but they would be like I told you so.......for i don't wanna hear that smack! Sometimes i feel like giving up, and sometimes i find myself crying for i feel so alone!
Well if you ever need someone to talk to ......you can always IM me or email me at mypharrell@yahoo.com!
Take care and hope everything goes well!
2006-08-26 15:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by MYPHARRELL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you getting rid of your husband and the reasons for it?
Anybody will accept you without children.
Men are not interested to take the responsibilities of somebody's children.
If you are economically independent and capable of taking the responsibility of your daughters, some may agree.
Do you want young guys or old guys?
From which place you are?
What is your age? Send the details through IMs.
2006-08-27 04:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, sometimes I feel really lonely. Then I find something to do, and then my girls come over. After a few hours of laughing, and having a great time with them, and my baby granddaughter, I'm no longer lonely. Then I appreciate my alone time again. Smiling ~
2006-08-26 15:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no one can feel the same as u do , and if the leaving process is making u feel like this then u need to think again about your husband because as u sound u are not properly prepaired for the step or may be there's something u are not conecting properly
2006-08-26 19:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by alag 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that after only 5 yrs, you and your spouse are calling it quits. All's I can say is I hope the future will be bright for you and your little girls and that I hope to God that you may be able to find love again...
2006-08-26 15:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ Brunette Latina ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel like you're alone.Yes,I understand that feeling.Pretty much,all my life,I've felt all alone.It's a horrible feeling.You're a mother,though,and you have children.I'm sure they love you,more than you know.Do you have any close,personal friends you can talk to?And family members?If you wanna talk,feel free to e-mail me.My e-mail is blue_eyes_dejected@yahoo.com.
I really do understand that lonely feeling.It's not only feeling like you're alone.But feeling like you're misunderstood.Like nobody understands the feeling of loneliness and isolation.
But you're loved and you're cared for.Don't ever forget that.You may feel like you're all alone.But you're really not.Though things seem overwhelming right now,they'll get better in time.There's other people out there,who understand that lonely feeling.I'm one of them.If you ever wanna talk,I'm here for you.E-mail me if you'd like.
2006-08-26 15:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Miss yavatar girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At times.
We're human, in need of human contact in one way or the other.
But when you use words like "get rid of..." it implies that there is some time for some "cleaning" to take place in your life, and sure you may miss, the items you throw out, but eventually once cleared out, you made space for "new" items to come into your life.
So I wish you strength in cleaning, OR strength in remodling.
2006-08-26 15:30:34 · answer #11 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋