my bf wants to see me naked but i dont like what it looks like. what do i do?

Answer 1

when you feel right do it, tell your self that you are sexy and no one looks better give your self a pep talk

Answer 2

What is it that you don't like about the way you look? If you're fat, start exercising and control your eating. If it's something that can't be changed through exercise and controlled eating then accept it as part of who you are and get over it. If it's some big hairy mole, have it removed. Otherwise, he's your boyfriend. He won't leave you because of how you look to him, he'll leave you because you don't think that you look good to yourself. The low self esteem will drive him away, not a few imperfections.

Answer 3

I have body image problems too... i do not have the perfect body, my boobs aren't really perky, I have stretch marks on my hips and my legs are too big... I'm soo selfconscience... but my boyfriend LOVES my body... and most guys don't see the little imperfections we see. When you're young, you think your body had to be perfect but really, guys don't care that much--they're just excited to see a naked woman! He'll think you're perfect the way you are-- if not, then he didn't deserve to see that you're a work of art.

There's nothing sexier to a man than a woman with confidence in her body

Answer 4

You should not be afraid for him to see you naked. If you accept your body then you should not have a problem other people accepting your body.
Unless you have an unsightly mole or growth then you should not worry.
If you feel you not ready for that, then don't force yourself to do it until your comfortable others seeing you body.
Post a picture and we will be the judge if you have a hot body or not.... ;)

Answer 5

Naked + girl = good for guy (even if you don't like how you look, I bet he will)

Answer 6

Ok I sort of had the same problem with my girlfriend. Although my solution really f*cked things up big time in the end for us. But well she was willing to show me her naked, but she just didn't want me to see her, because she doesn't like the way she looks, and she was always afraid that I would break up with her. The most I've seen is her in a really small bathing suit, and eventually in her bra and panties. She looked amazing either way. But well she still wasn't comfortable about showing me her naked. But well I was ok with it, I mean I was glad she was honest with me about these sort of things.

I mean bascially that's what you need to do with your boyfriend, you just need to either tell him your not ready yet, or just let him see alittle less of you each time, until you have nothing on anymore. But well really you need to learn to love what you have. I mean I know how you feel sort of. I hate my body, especially down below. It's that one part of me I can't stand, because I know I'm extremely small for my age, and I was always afraid that when my girlfriend sees it, she will break up with me. So well I know how you feel in a way. So well just talk to your boyfriend and figure out some ways you can either get over your fear, or just ask him for more time, so you can make yourself comfortable. And well even more importantly, if you really don't want to do it, then just tell him. I mean with my girlfriend I don't know if she really forgot or not. But well on different occasions she would tell me that today is the day I will see her naked. And well I would talk to her all day, and nothing would happen. And well from time to time, she would question things like "Do you like it shaved or not down by my p*ssy". "Do you want to see it all or just one part". Of course that one part question now that I think about it, could have been asked only because she realized how obessed I had become over her breasts, I mean she has a perfect cup size for her age, and well I acted like a f*cking pervert and kept talking about them non-stop, it came to the point where she actually accepted the fact that I might only love her for her breasts, and she loved me so much that she was ok with that fact. And well ever since she found out the truth, because as soon as I realized what my actions were, I completely broke down and cried, and well I asked her to forgive me, she didn't know I was crying, because I was too chicken to show her. But well I was really upset. And well ever since that day, on top of other reasons. Her and I have never been the same. She stopped talking to me everyday. Talks to me at least once a week, for about 30 mins or so. Then has to go. I mean this is my punishment, and if one of these days she breaks up with me, then well i can't complain or anything, because I brought this upon myself. It tears my soul in half knowing that one day she could just show up and just say it's over.

So really make sure that your boyfriend loves you for you, and not just because you have an amazing body. As long as you know his feelings for you are pure, then you won't have to end up doing what my girlfriend had to do to me. And your relationship will survive.

So just remember to communicate your feelings to your boyfriend, maybe he can help you become more comfortable about it. If not I'm sure you'll figure something out.

Answer 7

girl, ye gotta get over that, let him be the judge. wouldn't it be great if he thought you were hot? yeah, man. don't be so shy, hun. he did, afterall, ask nicely, did he not? (now shuk 'em, guuuurl)

Answer 8

Let him see you, they only see the good. It will turn him on.

Answer 9

he must like what he sees or he would not ask you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
get out of your shell that all females have and enjoy life and quit woring about stupid ****.

Answer 10

cause his a perv dont do it it all about you if you alow it and if you dont all about you