Me and some of my boyz go out every friday night and i normally invite this guy who hasnt enjoy life yet "He's told us he hasnt done much parting in his life." So i take him with us to the clubs, privite party's, strip clubs, ect. But recently I found out that one of my co-workers has been talking to him and making him feel bad about all this, so last night we were drinking in my best friends rest. when he tells me that he doesnt think he can hang with us a lot any more because JOE said that we were only going to corrupt him and treat him like a dog. Now i dont have a problem with him not kickin back with us but when a nother guy who doesnt have real friends and is going threw problems with his girl try to give some one advise on how to pick ur friends that pissis me off.
2006-08-26 14:24:42 · 23 answers · asked by jmg559 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Now am marry and so are most of my friends that i go out with and my wife doesnt mind the way i live my life. Thats for JOE i've been thinkin about just kickin his *** for actin like a punk, but thats just my opinion and talkin to him about it is out of the question. WHAT DO U THINK
2006-08-26 14:28:14 · update #1
Maybe i should say that this guy already smokes weed, and has been drinkin for a wile now, so i really doubt that am going to corrupt him
2006-08-26 14:33:11 · update #2
Well you have a lot to say here. But I have to ask you, why do you let Joe bother you? The problem is not Joe, it's the perspective he gives to "this guy".
Think about this.......you seem far less concerned with...the guy...than Joe. Kind of like Joe is stealing your girl.
Why don't you get with... the guy.... and give him your perspective. Tell him your version of what is going on. Try to be a real friend to him.
In what you say here, I for one, can see where Joe is coming from.
You sound like it is a challenge for you to bring "this guy" out of his shell.....or is it all just for fun? Makes you feel better because at least your not like him.
Who's best interest do you really have here. Yours or "this guy"?
If you were really friends with...this guy...he would not have any reason to listen to Joe would he?
2006-08-26 14:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to hang out and drink with you, or go to parties, or strip clubs. Maybe he prefers to be alone? Maybe he doesn't like those situations because he doesn't feel comfortable. You should let him decide whether he wants ot hang out or not. Maybe you will corrupt him with drinking, smoking, and probably drugs or worse. Back off him and let him have his space. Not partying much is not a social crime.
2006-08-26 21:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate just tell the guy to make his own decisions, If he still doesnt want to hang then so be it, but it sounds like he is being pressured into not going out with you guys.
Good on you for trying to help him out though. If only there were more people like you willing to help
2006-08-26 21:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by navymt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like "JOE" is a "JOEHOVAH's WITNESS" or something---since the other dude, Mr. Cant Corrupt Oh No! already is a doobie brother...
and you havent treated him like a dog YET....
Invite him now and then anyway, in fact, INVITE JOE OUT...tee hee....bottle of whisky OOPS officer, I didn't realize there was a stop sign...
2006-08-27 09:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually some guys have a problem when they had a gf and she left them the guys get all depressed and dont want to hang out thats all i heard
2006-08-26 21:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just think that they are cool and they also think it's funny and they also think that it's normal to do. Honestly you should look for a person who you trust in, who's honest, well put it this way you should try looking for a friend who doesn't do bad stuff to you and a friend who doesn't talk about you behind your back.
2006-08-26 21:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by navydaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy probably just doesn't like that scene much. He'll figure out what he wants to do, regardless of what some other guy who's having trouble with his girl says.
2006-08-26 21:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dont know the problems at home with his girl its hard to say maybe one on one w/ him to find out if his girl is to controling or maybe hes just one of the real nice guys left
2006-08-26 21:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by woodsdragons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it best. Keep doing what your doing and be a friend. No one wants to be alone, especially going through hard times/
2006-08-26 21:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by imyourfantasy4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man these are people that still have some growing to do b/c they don't think for them self. People stilltell them what they should do. I understand take some advise but not doing what you want.hmm
2006-08-26 21:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋