I am 15 my friend....this is kind of a strange story...My friend and i went out to get my goped fixed, when i asked him if he wanted to sleep ove my house, so i told him to call his mom and ask her if he could. But instead of asking her if he could sleep over my house he joked around and said that he was never coming home. So him and his mom were laughing about it then they hung up...a few minutes later she called back very upset and told him to come home right away....when we went back i went to my houe and he went to his....them a couple of minute later as im about to get on my goped he came walking over to my house crying and i asked him "Whats wrong" he he said that his mom wants to make him move with his dad, and that she dosent want him to hang out with me anymore, so i asked him why, he said that his mom said "i do drugs and i am influencing him to do drugs". I WAS SHOCKED! because we both know that i dont do drugs. my mom tried to talk with her but his mom CANT SPEAK ENGLISH!!!
2006-08-26 14:16:56 · 10 answers · asked by kenan33342 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am a mom of 4 plus two steps, and 14 neighbor kids. Let her cool off... MOST important, let her cool off. Then You need someone that can speak her language to talk with her. I get upset, hotheaded, but let me work through it first. THEN, talk to me... Also, it helps to hear from someone else that not related to you...
2006-08-26 14:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by 4mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definately need to get this straightened out. Ask your mom if she will go with you to see your friend's mom. Have your friend translate for you both. Let your friend know that jokes like that aren't funny to parents. Good luck
2006-08-26 14:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life story is true enough even though his mom doesnt speak english it doesnt give her the right to do this your friendship is strong you do things together like friends should do, i guess his mom is over protective, But i am going to say this to you and you better listen, :True friendship is strong even though he moves your friendship will never be broken even from his mom.
2006-08-26 14:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend is using some kind of drug that his my found .Your friend is not being honest with you about something. Do you hang with your friend 24/7? if not you don't know everthing thats going on with him. Be there as much as you can to help him thought this time you and him will be fine still have alot of growing to do.
2006-08-26 14:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie37 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be patient. Right wll always domain. But what is goped?
2006-08-26 14:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go over there with your parents and explain to them that u dont use drugs, your parents can back u on this. GoodLuck Bud
2006-08-26 14:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by ChevyGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i've gone thru that. there was this grl who wanted to b my friend, and her mom won't let her hang out with me because i'm white, yet she still does. soon, i got annoyed of all the harsh comments the grl kept telling me her mom said, so i went to the root of the prblm. i asked her wat was so wrong with me, and i confronted her racism. i told her she has no right to say those things to me, she doesn't even kno me! and so, i left all pissed, who cares if it's an adult? soon, the mom stopped sayn all those things to me. anyways dude, wat im sayn is, have ur friend translate 4 u, and settle this thing.
2006-08-26 14:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do your best... don't lose him... y don't your friend translate for her? Tell him to tell her that he does not want to move there!!!
2006-08-26 14:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jake K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES TEENAGERS ACT STUPID,,LIKE THEY ARE ON DRUGS
2006-08-26 14:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
walk it off
2006-08-26 14:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Takafushi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋