help!!!! should i call him?

Question

ok so last year when we were in 8th grade (we've already been friends 4 2 years) i started lking him but when he found out he started ignoring me nd stuff lke in the hallways nd would only tlk 2 me at lunch (we sat at the same lunch table) nd he would always b mean 2 me so i was mean 2 him 2. well, soon tht kinda turned into flirting nd i thought he lked me cause he would always look at me nd tease me nd smile when i tlked 2 him, but when i asked him he said no. then the whole ignoring each other thing happened again nd on the last day of school i thought he would at least say goodbye but i wlked towards him 2 tlk 2 his cousin he quickly wlked away nd left so a few weeks later i tried 2 tlk 2 him bout it online but he blocked me! tht was in june nd 4 a few days ive been having this gut feeling 2 call him but im afriad. i dont want him 2 thnk im stalkin him or anything but i just need 2 tlk 2 him nd i thnk he wants 2 tlk 2 me 2. should i call him or not?

i thnk im in luv w/ him!

Answer 1

don't call wait he will come to you

Answer 2

ya u should but just dont tell him right away cuz then hes gonna hang up on u jus start a convers wit him and thenask him at a good time (do u like me and be honest 2 me)and thats it. if it dont work out riht then u jus rite baq 2 me ok bye

Answer 3

Absolutely not! When he blocked you I'd call that a real clear sign....the ball is in his court now. If you call him you run the risk of him calling you things like obsessed, stalker...etc. You don't want to go down that road do you. My advice is look for a new opportunity.

Answer 4

I guess you should if you want to find the answer from him.I know being friends you do want to keep this friendship that you have somehow built during the years.But if after calling and he still behave in that manner...then plzzz forget him and move on.He doesn't deserve to be your friend.Take care and all the best!!!!!

Answer 5

ohh boy, well I don't think you should, just don't, whenever he wants to talk to you he will do it himself!! trust me I have a friend who is going through almost the same thing. he will think you're desperate and if someone doesn't want to talk to you don't talk to them for a while. if he AT least wants to be your friend again, he'll come to you. just don't expect him to have any feelings for you at the moment. after he starts talking to you, then just keep it as friends. who knows, maybe one day not too far from this one he'll like you back :)

Answer 6

Honey, first of all learn to type without using numbers. Secondly if it's this much of an issue, just call him. If you don't, you will always wonder....

Answer 7

I don't think he likes you. He seems like a jerk. But it's possible that he does. Maybe he's just really shy. Who knows. Don't call him though. He doesn't seem like the right guy for you.

Answer 8

i think that you're not getting his point he don't want to talk to u so don't call him he said he don't like u show signs of totally ignoring u and u still feel the need to call him....don't stoop to that level its call "begging, desparate"

Answer 9

well if i was u i would call him cuz when u have something to say to him then call him cuz if u dont u are gonna regret it and wanna go back to the day that u were gonna do it so call and see wut happens hope i helped

Answer 10

yeah you should to c what he will do and if he hangs up that means he needs time to get his emotions together

Answer 11

I WOULDN'T I THINK HE IS TRYING TO SAY HE DOESN'T EAITHER LIKE YOU ANYMORE OR THAT HE DON'T LIKE YOU IN THAT WAYY.. I WOYULD LEAVE HIM ALONE FOR A WHILE AND SEE WHAT HE DOES THEN AND THEN TRY TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT..