What does this mean? Am I a downer?
2006-08-26 13:44:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No.
2006-08-26 13:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it necessarily means you are a downer, but you may not be invited because you aren't reaching out as a friend to others. If you are waiting around for someone to invite you to a party, you may be waiting a very long time. If you want to be invited -- you may need to invite people to your own party first.
If that isn't your style, perhaps you need to decide whether parties are all that important to you.
2006-08-26 20:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ifeelyourpain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that doesn't mean your a downer..i mean who really personally invites ppl to parties.....i know when im having a party i just tell a couple of friends..and tell them to bring friends and tell other ppl...unless its llike a real private thing..you shouldn't really be thinking that u need a personal invite to a party....9 out of ten ppl that go to parties were not "invited"..its nothing..lol...last time i was invited to a party i was like in the fifth grade..and it was a sleepover
2006-08-26 20:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to go to several parties to be an OK person. Some parties are best not to be at. It also depends on if your out going and not to shy. Don't look at yourself as a downer you can be anything you want to be and don't listen to anyone who tries to tell you differently.
2006-08-26 20:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe you just hang out with people that generally don't have parties. I have only been to one "real party." That's because my friends just don't have parties. And if you really want to go to a party - you throw a party and invite people, then maybe you'll start getting invited to more parties. Have a good night!
2006-08-26 20:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
have a party of your own with only the friends you trust.
Limit the party to 4 friends and they must bring their own dish that there ansesstors were from
You make the salad and supply the drinks
2006-08-26 20:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kangvbc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actaully are at an advantage to not being invited to many parties. It gives you the ability to crash and be increase popularity somewhat.
2006-08-26 20:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Icon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to like people and be sociable to go to parties and I'm not that. I don't see the point in going to a place just be be seen and pretend you have friends. I couldn't care a less.
2006-08-26 20:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bru 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're missing out on some great opportunities to meet chicks for one-night stands. And have great times with other guys like I did last night at my friend's friend's house.
2006-08-27 19:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Evan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially if you are outgoing and have lots of friend, and no one invites you to their parties, then something is definately amiss. They may be sending you a message.
2006-08-26 20:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should make yourself more noticed and liked in school or work. Don't be afraid to ask to be invited either.
2006-08-26 20:48:14 · answer #11 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋